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*emeplev
writes:Ok question: Do any of you women or men in any type of relationship ever ever snoop or look thru draws, files papers laying out computer, phone looking thru the boyfriends/girlfriends things when they arent around? Am I the only one who NEVER ever thinks about it, it makes me uncomfortable to even be in his room or house and he leaves me alone I get very stiff and wierd cause I dont ever look thru anything i wont even go in fridge without asking first...is that wierd? ps its been 1.5 yr relationship but this is just genreal question Reply to this Question
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reader, demeplev +, writes (17 July 2012):
demeplev is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks everyone, I dont like snooping as I wouldnt want it done to me, i was brought up very old fashioned and I dont like roaming peoples homes so I was just wondering how off of normal I was to others as I still can hear my mothers voice scolding me for using my aunts bathroom without asking first.lol memories huh. Have a beautiful day everyone, peace and love
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (17 July 2012):
 I don't snoop unless I'm given a reason to snoop.
I had ONE partner I snooped... my last husband... but he was a lying cheater other than that never have never will.
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reader, kaiti30 +, writes (16 July 2012):
 Yes, ive gone through my boyfrineds ENTIRE room, you cant really know someone unless you do... you learn alot from things you find see... but i wouldnt go looking unless you expect the worse... it isnt a bad thing! unless you tke it to whole different level.. you need to be able to feel comfortable! youll get use to it alot quicker... good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2012): I used to, back when I suffered badly with retroactive jealousy. Photos, emails, old postcards, you name it, I hunted them all down.
Now, a course of strong anti-depressants and high quality counselling sessions later, I don't bother. Seriously, we all need a degree of privacy even from those closest to us, and obesssive behaviour like checking up on a partner all the time isn't healthy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 July 2012): I have looked at things in my boyfriends phone and papers, etc in the past. I make an effort to try not to but it IS something I think about doing when his belongings are unattended. It isnt weird that you don't, hopefully its because you trust him. I trust my bf sometimes being nosy has just gotten the better of me so I try harder to respect his privacy. Ummm not going in the fridge after all this time is a little weird..You should feel at home at his place. Does he mind you going to the fridge? lol Other than that don't stiffen up just be comfortable and if you trust him and don't want to look through his things then don't.
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