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writes:Do some single men really push women away when they feel like they're getting too close? There's this guy I've been seeing on and off for the past year (I'm not putting all my eggs in his basket though, I see other people too from time to time). It seems like every once in a while he will step it up with texting me and wanting to hang out. Then, after what seems like a great time together where I feel we've really connected I don't hear from him for like 2-3 weeks. Could he be pushing me away with fears that what we have could start to be too much like a relationship? Yes, we are sexual with each other but we do other things besides that, like go to the movie, go out to eat, go to the beach, etc, and we dont get intimate with each other every time we see each other. So, what gives?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2009): You say your not putting all your eggs in one basket and it sounds like he's doing the same.Maybe he's just as confused about you as you are him.Why dont you just ask him if he's interested in becoming an "item"? He might jump at it..or he might not.But at least you will find out out if theres any future.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2009): This relationship is not going anywhere. Time to cut your losses and give him the heave ho.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2009): youre just his booty call. He doesn want to commit to you in case he finds someone he thinks is better than you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2009): He will never make a commitment with you because your in a friends with benafit situation wether you realised it or not.
The best thing to do in is situation like this is sign upto some relationship advice and you will relasie that he's not likely going to make any commitment plans with you because he hasn't already. Why would he need to do that when he's getting all of this from you.
good luck
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (16 October 2009):
What gives is that he doens't want to be tied down at the moment. If he really wanted you for keeps, he would commit. As he's not committing, I'm afraid you're just someone he likes to see, likes to be with but only casually. So you now have to ask yourself whether that is good enough, or whether you'd like commitment.
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