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Do men wish their women looked like porn stars?

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Article - (28 December 2014) 3 Comments - (Newest, 5 January 2015)
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

A question for men . Do men secretly wish their wives looked like porn

Stars ? Not be actual porn actresses - just look like them ?

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A male reader, arrgy United States +, writes (5 January 2015):

Sometimes yes, sometimes no. All "porn stars" look that way because of a TON of makeup. The question is, why are you asking this?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2014):

Normal everyday women don't look like porn stars. Porn stars don't look like normal everyday people.

Why would you think men want women who look like that?

Guys like to wank to looking at images of porn stars having sex.

There are hookers walking around on street corners who may look like porn stars; and guys could take their pick, if that's what men wanted for wives or girlfriends. They'd love to have a husband or boyfriend to take care of them. They can obviously sleep with anybody; so they aren't picky!

Those women are actresses making a living on film. They have cosmetic physical enhancements, wigs/weaves, and wear a lot of make-up. They go to the gym and develop their bodies in order to enhance their careers. For them it's all about the money, for men it's just about the sex. I think you'd want to be seen as more than a sex-object?

Porn actresses sometimes even disguise their true appearance. They hide because of the scornful way they're treated by the public, or the disrespect they draw from men.

Off-screen you wouldn't recognize them.

This is another post about your insecurities being set-off by your boyfriend or husband watching porn isn't it?

It's adult-entertainment meant for masturbation.

Most guys wouldn't want to be seen in public with women who look like that. That's why they pay prostitutes to have raunchy sex in a sleazy motel or in a car. Maybe pay a high-priced call-girl to visit in secret. Men have no respect for that kind of woman.

They throw money at them while they gyrate and slide up and down poles. Those women would rather make money doing something else. They see the ugliest most primal side of men. They are objectified and viewed only to get-off on.

They get whistles, cat-calls, hoots, and howls.

Remember how you felt when you wore your sexiest tightest mini-skirt walking past workmen, or a bunch of drunken blokes on a corner?

Imagine how men treat women who dress provocatively all the time, and/or make a living at it. A lot worse!!!

Men commit, respect, and come home to the women they really want. That doesn't shut-off his fantasies, and desire to masturbate to sexy images. Don't compare sex-addicted perverts to regular men. Don't compare normal women to porn actresses!

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A male reader, no nonsense Aidan United Kingdom +, writes (29 December 2014):

I doubt it. Presumably people pick partners they find attractive: why would anyone pick some-one whilst wishing they looked like some-one else altogether? Some men may like the type of look typical of a porn star but I always find these kind of questions a bit odd. Is there not just as much variety in the kinds of women men are attracted to, as there is amongst women in their attraction to men? The answer to all questions like the one you pose is always the same: some, yes. How many? No idea. Every man, no.

I wish you all the very best.

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