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writes: Do men have an equal right to not allow women to let her touch the guys body parts when he doesn't really want her to or dislikes it? In case, someone forces herself on to you, what would be a proper reaction? I feel like i have been programmed to believe that as a guy i ought to be always prepared for sex and that it would be silly to say no to any such intiation from women. Please advice. Reply to this Question
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reader, maxsteel86  +, writes (4 March 2007):
 Programmed to believe that huh? Maybe you should get reprogrammed! Are you coded in C++? Cos I'm really good with that language, could help you out lol!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 March 2007): Men have exactly the same rights as women when it comes to being forced into sex. Of course you are allowed to say no! Don't feel pressured into having sex when you don't want to and if some girl which you aren't interested in starts touching your body parts you have every right to warn her off, exactly like it was the other way round (with a boy touching a girl's body parts).
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reader, Wendyg +, writes (3 March 2007):
 Everyone has the right to say no, no matter who we are. If somebody is acting in an improper way toward you then tell them!
The thing with society is that they expect the man to always be up for it and sometimes he may feel a lesser man for declining such an offer. But in reality we are not all controlled by a switch and shouldnt fall into whats thought of as common place.
If you dont want to do something and are not feeling comfortable dont do it.. We cannot all be governed by the same rule... whats good for one is seldom good for another.
If you are feeling harrased or being exploited by someone you have every right just as a women to make a noise about it. Doesnt matter what sex we are we can all be exploited and just because your a man doesnt mean you should just accept the behaviour. Lots of men are harrased and its not always seen in the right light, but its just as bad being a man being sexually intimated as it is for a woman.
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