Do I say this friendship is over, or do I let something like this pass?

A female age 30-35, *mandanash writes:

So my best friend bailed from a kayaking trip the night before we were supposed to leave. I called the company and they said the 150$ had to be paid anyway and no refunds could be made. I told my friend this and she said "no it's your fault you didn't call me and confirm that you were making the reservation, so you pay the 150$". I didn't confirm the day OF the reso, but i confirmed the day before and a few days before that to make sure she could come. Now she's calling me a bi*** and telling me to shut the he** up about everything or she won't give me the 20$ dollars she actually owes me for the new cancellation fee they made. She said she would have never paid me back the 150$ anyway and I would have been stuck with it. She called me a lazy a** and other very rude names, when I sat on the phone for 2 hours with the kayaking company so the 150$ could be reduced, for her sake. Now she is treating me terribly. What do I do? Do i say this friendship is over, or do I let something like this pass? She was willing to put me 150$ in the drain with not even a blink of an eye or a care. And she has been calling me very very rude things and saying mean things about my family and my job. What do I do?

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