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female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:I'm sure I love my bf....I'm only young but we have been together for nearly a year but never kissed on the lips :/ and I'm talking to him online now and he says how much he loves me...but there's this other guy in our friendship group who hardly ever has a gf because he is Ginger has a lisp and huge braces. But I would prefer to he with him over my bf anyday! I would talk to him about more than I would my bf and feel more comfortable where there would be awkward silences sometimes (bf is quiet). I find him hilarious whilst everybody else finds my bf really funny but this other guy I laugh at more. I just don't know if I'm attracted to him i guess. He's such a great friend but lately I realised he has a bigger heart than any other guy I know. Including my bf. And I would feel more comfortable with the kissing thing. Eeeeek I don't know what to do. I'm afraid to ruin my relationship with my bf when I don't think he likes me and I don't know if I like this other guy!!!! I just....am so confused. PLEASE HELP?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2012): Firstly, you say you would rather be with your friend than your boyfriend any day, well that there says to me that you should end things with your boyfriend. Your not being fair to him by stringing him along simply because you don't know if your friend likes you. So do the right thing and end things.You need to figure out how you feel, take some time to concentrate on who you want. Though from your post, I honestly think you like your friend and your just scared that he might not like you the same way and you don't want to be single. My advice is either decide you still want your boyfriend (I don't think you do though) and put your energy into the relationship, or chose your friend, end it with your boyfriend and then see what happens with this other guy.Just one more thought, do you think maybe this friend doesn't look at you as someone he might like because you have a boyfriend and he is a decent guy who DOESN'T play games with other people's emotions! Honestly your so young, concentrate on your education and not so much on boys. Maybe if you were single he would look at you as a potential interest. Make a decision and don't lead one just because you think the other one may not like you. Good Luck.
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