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writes: I have a lovely partner but feel so unloved and neglected. Weve been together 4 year's and to start with we had great sex and were very madly attracted to each other. I accepted that things might cool down a bit after a year or two but we care for each other lots. He's very trustworthy and kind with me, but is starting to rely on me heavily and it feels like I give a lot more to him than he gives to me. He has had minor illness which he says affects his sex drive but he's been off sex for a long time now. I always have to initiate sex and he often goes off the boil half way through. Im feeling less and less attracted to him and wondering if he's no longer attracted to me too.I recenly developed a crush on a married male work colleague, which is upsetting me. Nothing will happen there but its very frustrating. It makes me think i need to move on and find someone new.Should I consider leaving my job, and should I think about trying to make up with my partner or should I accept that were not right for each other?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2006): Then move on. Look you just need someone else to give you reconfirmation of your own thoughts. You know exactly what you need to do. Don't make strangers say it for you. Details aren't important. Your heart has died down. Enough said.
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