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Do I just have a libido that demands variety or is this a relationship issue?

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Question - (9 August 2012) 2 Answers - (Newest, 5 November 2012)
A male Australia age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Me and my girlfriend have been dating for almost 7 months, and seeing each other exclusively for around 10. We are a really good match and my feelings for her are generally very strong. But every few days or weeks she gets weird, very distant or emotional. Or even if she is normal I suddenly want to cheat on her, have sex with someone else or just breakup with her.

I've never been unfaithful before and I don't intend to, but I'm wondering how to get rid of these feelings. I have a VERY high sex drive, I normally ejaculate at least once a day, when I'm with her we have sex at least once, normally up to 3 times in a day.

So I'm not sure if I have a libido that demands variety or its a relationship issue. Any thoughts would be very helpful :)

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A male reader, johncandrews986 United States +, writes (5 November 2012):

Being faithful is a decision. You can choose that it's the right thing to do. Basically, I'm saying that I don’t think it's a libido that needs variety and neither do I think it's a relationship issue. I think you need to decide on what kind of relationship is healthy for both of you. Maybe you need to invest your life in something meaningful since it seems like you have a lot of time. There are people you can read about in Ageless Male testimonials who would love to be in your predicament though.

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A female reader, thenightmarebeforechristmas United Kingdom +, writes (10 August 2012):

thenightmarebeforechristmas agony auntmaybe you should try talking to her, a lot of the time when women go weird its because there is something going on in our lives or inside our minds that make us this way. she should be able to speak to you about whats going on so just sit her down and approach the subject.

Ensure you are sensitive about it.

As for you're desires to have sex with other women, if you actually WANT to carry out these urges then you shouldn't be with her its not very fair, but if they are just a fantasy that you would never want to carry out then its totally innocent.

i hope this helps :)

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