I feel very alone and unwanted, and I don't know what to do.
Q. i dont know what to do im 18 i have very frew friends cant seem to find a girlfriend i hardly ever talk 2 my mum or dad we can sit in same room without speaking 4 days i feel very alone and unwanted i dont no what to do any help...
A. 14 October 2008: Don't worry, you're not alone as i'm pretty much in the same situation. Maybe even worse as my parents are emotionally abusive instead of just ignoring me. I also can't seem to find a gf, and have very few friends as they all found someone and went ... (read in full...)
I have these stupid obsessions, right now it's Richard Hammond.
Q. Help! I am 14 and all my friends seem to have boyfriends. I am the only one in my year who has never had a boyf and it's really getting me down. I recently went through some points with my social life and I am too forward with people. Also, I have...
A. 29 September 2008: Hey there, I know how hard it can be when all your friends have someone and you don't (I'm in the same situation). But try not to worry too much about it, you're still really young. The thing is, your friends' boyfriends are most likely aesthetic ... (read in full...)
I can't bring myself to ask her out
Q. Ok,, I'm having a bit of a problem. Theres this girl I like and I think she does me, thing is, I can't bring myself to ask her out, or even ask for her number, I do talk to her quite a bit and I really believe that shes meant for me. Now, 2 th...
A. 28 September 2008: Hi, I was in a very similar situation as you a few weeks ago. We spoke at work fine but when it came down to asking for her # or something, I completely phased out. If you're too scared and not in a rush, then take your time to build up your ... (read in full...)
I hate my dad. Please help!
Q. hey i really need some help and advice.. im 13 years old and i apsalutly h8 my dad!! my mum is desabled and for instance my mum fell out of her wheel chair when i was younger.. and my dad was drunk on the sofa. so my mum had to crawl her way t...
A. 14 September 2008: Hi there. I just wanted to let you know that I know how you feel. My parents were extremely abusive towards me while I was your age. I'm asian, and my parents did things the traditional way and always resorted to violence to solve things since their ... (read in full...)
I'm 18 years old and I have never had a proper girlfriend!
Q. i'm 18 and haven't had a proper girlfriend. Only kissed once 2years ago. I've lost all hope! Everyone says the time will come, i been lookin for 6years at least and nothing has happened. Its me isn't it? I'm really nice, girls love me but only as ...
A. 10 September 2008: If you think you got it bad, I'm 25, never had a gf, and never even kissed anyone. You're not the only one losing hope =P... (read in full...)
I have no clue what he's thinking! Does he not like me as a friend, is he uncomfortable or intimidated?
Q. It's kind of a long post, but I really have no clue what hes thinking and how i'm feeling, because i'm so confused at the moment. Okay, well.. In May 2008 I started dating this guy in my school, I knew him for a year before because he was new, and...
A. 8 September 2008: I'm sure there are reasons for his akwardness around you. He may be "weird" around you because he might not know how you feel about him or the situation. He may think that you hate him or have a grudge against him because he chose another girl over ... (read in full...)
Why does my boyfriend deny he has watched porn with all the evidense on his face?
Q. i kee finding evidence of porn viewed on my partners pc but when i confront him about it he adamantly denies it, when it is blatantly obvious! we are from different countries which has meant that we have been apat for months at a time! please ...
A. 7 September 2008: Try not to only think of this as a bad thing. Your bf may just be trying to keep his pride. Maybe he thinks viewing porn is below him and to admit doing so would make him less of a good partner in your eyes. Tell him that you know he watches porn ... (read in full...)
I feel left out since all my high school friends are paired off.
Q. recently this year, i did quarrelled with my only friends i had over a many reasons. firstly, last year we were all very close. simply because we are all single and have been going a rough patch in our love life. and this year, all of them got ...
A. 7 September 2008: Don't worry, you're not alone. I'm in the same situation, except I've never even had a gf before. All my friends have someone and whenever I go out with them, they'd bring them along so i'd be the only single guy. I do feel akward and maybe even a ... (read in full...)
Am I shallow because I found him physically unattractive?
Q. Am I being shallow? I have just met a guy for the first time on a dating site. We got on famously and really gelled with personality. The problem is, I actually thought he was physically very unattractive to me and didn't fancy him at all. He wants ...
A. 6 September 2008: Hello, no I don't think you're shallow. I think everybody has their own thing that attracts them. For example, some people are attracted to money, some to looks, some to personality, etc. And in return, some people have money but not looks, some ... (read in full...)
Anybody have any advice on what I should do?
Q. I'm beginning... Actually, I already think I am. I'm 25, never had a gf, never even kissed a girl, and still live with my parents. I don't think i'm ugly, in fact, most people tell me i'm cute. And it's not like I don't try to ask people out, I just ...
A. 6 September 2008: Ah, thanks guys for the advice. But the problem is, I do act confident and happy around people (well, not TOO happy as to freak people out) but it's still not working. Maybe nice guys really do finish last? I've been told that I put people's needs ... (read in full...)
Why all this HATE towards me and show of temper?
Q. I met a guy a few months ago whilst on vacation and became friends-he wanted more but I held back because he was quite good at telling everyone in the hotel things and I did not want that spread around. he also got very angry in front of everyone ...
A. 30 August 2008: My best advice is to start ignoring him. He seems like a real jerk. He already hates you so to dwell on that is just going to stress you out more, and that's probably what he wants. It's better to rid him of your life so you can enjoy it again. Be ... (read in full...)
How can I initiate a friendship after the break up?
Q. I was communicating with a man from an online-dating site for a few weeks. After our first date, we mutually agreed to meet-up again. The conversation flowed really well and we were both excited about seeing one another again. However, hours before ...
A. 30 August 2008: I wouldn't think it'll be out of line. If say I broke up with someone, i'd love for them to have the courage to ask for us to still be friends. It's always good to have a new friend, and who knows, perhaps that "chemistry" just needs a little more ... (read in full...)
Was she lying about him molesting her or was she just cheating on me?
Q. I would like to find out what you would do my girlfriend called me up 1 day saying a guy(her friend) tried to molest her when he invited her to go out because it was the last day he was in town. She gave me his number to call him up. Then he told ...
A. 30 August 2008: Hmm this one is hard, but I'm suspicious that she used the word "mistake." If I got into my ex-gf's car and we had a fight or something, i'd most likely say, "I shouldn't of have gotten in." not, "It was a mistake." (implying something more serious) ... (read in full...)
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