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writes:i am in a relationship since past 4 years and my boyfriend hits me time and again sometimes he has reasons and sometimes he dosent have any reason. we both love each other a lot and thats d reason why i keep forgiving him? i really dont know what to do plz help Reply to this Question
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reader, micpets  +, writes (18 March 2010):
If someone goes to the length of hitting you then you're not equal partners. You are an adult why would someone treat you in same fashion as almost a child that when you do wrong punishment in form of a beating ensues.
Take a good look at yourself and ask some serious question of where this relationship is going!
Best advise quit while ahead.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (18 March 2010):
 There is never a reason for hitting. I know that certain cultures are okay with men hitting their women as long as there are no bruises and on sensitive parts of the body. For most people here, any kind of hitting is wrong. It doesn't matter if he's Indian, Muslim, Black, White or Asian. You keep forgiving him because you hope he won't do it again. No, nothing would change him. Leave him and find yourself a gentle boyfriend.
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reader, The Realist +, writes (18 March 2010):
 Please don't tell yourself that he has reasons. There are absolutely no reasons at all in the world for this behavior. You are far better then him and need to get out of there right away, tell people too. They will be on your side and help you through this. He may say he loves you but its a lie, he would never do this if he was truely in love with you. If you don't leave this will never stop and I doubt you want kids to grow up with that kind of father or to be beaten well into old age till one day it goes to far. For your safety you need to leave him and getting the police involved would also be a good idea esspecially if you have solid proof.
It will be a scary journey but in the end leaving him will be the best thing for you.
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