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He cried when he ejaculated! Is this normal?

Q.   i have just started a new relationship and slept together for the first time although we didnt have sex just foreplay . i just wondered if it was normal for a man to cry whilst ejeculating never had this happen before ...

A.   27 August 2010: what a great subject? Yes men cry when they reach the height of their performance. I think it is quite normal but what a subject - men would have never have discussed among themselves. Thank You For Asking.... (read in full...)

Do girls like nice guys or bad guys? I'm confused!

Q.   im 18 years old and ive never had a girlfriend. i have plenty of friends that are girls but have never had a serious relationship. ive never even been kissed. im not a bad looking guy. i have girls tell me im good looking and some actually check me ...

A.   27 August 2010: Women.....they change according to that time of the month. Hahahahaha......anyway you can never tell........... (read in full...)

Do I forgive him for hitting me because I love him?

Q.   i am in a relationship since past 4 years and my boyfriend hits me time and again sometimes he has reasons and sometimes he dosent have any reason. we both love each other a lot and thats d reason why i keep forgiving him? i really dont know what to ...

A.   18 March 2010: If someone goes to the length of hitting you then you're not equal partners. You are an adult why would someone treat you in same fashion as almost a child that when you do wrong punishment in form of a beating ensues. Take a good look at yourself... (read in full...)

Terrified of my future, I feel lost!

Q.   I don't want to go into detail because this is the internet and nothing is private. But I'm really worried about my future. I'm terrified that I'm not capable and that I'll never be a successful person or have a career. I'm worried that I j...

A.   15 March 2010: I have read all the information put down on your email however I feel that you worry too much. It seems rather hideous that you have worked so hard and now you find yourself with a lot of doubt. That has understanding and it will help you even ... (read in full...)

Were both not ready for a commitment but I don't want to lose what we have.

Q.   Hi i have been with this guy for 7 months i realley love him alot and he says he loves me to but he broke up with me because he says that he don't want to be in a committed relationship right now and i'm not ready to be in a committed relationship ...

A.   4 March 2010: To be or not to be, that is the question. He is a great guy and you don't want to loose him at the same time is good with your kids. Sometime in life we have to be honest when it comes to what we really want which means going down a differen... (read in full...)

Why cant I orgasm since I have started having sex with my boyfriend?

Q.   Hi, this is embarrassing, but I would really like to know what others think. I've only been sexually active for about two months. Ever since I started having sex, I've had trouble reaching orgasm, whether my bf is stimulating me or even if I'm doing ...

A.   4 March 2010: I will give this a try, therefore it might not be perfect. From having read your email my answer would be perhaps you should try and relax before and during the actual act. This in my opinion relaxes your body which means that you don't put as m... (read in full...)

Past has made me insecure and I need help to overcome this.

Q.   Someone please tell me how to overcome my insecurity issues! This is so stupid! Most of the guys I dated in the past left me without as much as a phone call. Usually they'd stop calling or not make further plans to go out. Therefore I soon...

A.   4 March 2010: Best answer is, be honest, telling him exactly how you feel and how you come to have developed that experience. If he loves you enough he will understand hopefully by helping you deal with that situation while reassuring you. Try it and as time goes ... (read in full...)

Why does it always take him so long to cum?

Q.   I've been dating this guy for almost a year and when we have sex he doesn't cum. He told me he normally doesn't when he masturbates it takes him almost an hour to cum I'm not sure what I can do.. ...

A.   26 February 2010: There isn't a magic for this one however I will suggest that maybe he should try masturbating less as time passes he will regain the natural ability to perform possibly in the right timing. He could also try and relax as much as possible before a... (read in full...)

How do I make him more comfortable around me? He's just so shy.

Q.   so i just started talking to this SUPER SHY guy. i mean SUPER SHY! he used to just stare at me, but then i started talking to him. hes friends w/ my bgf (best guy friend) and they talk about me and he likes me2. its just hes SOOO shy. he looks do...

A.   26 February 2010: Give him more reassurance and try spending as much time together as possible as that will lead to him knowing you a little better removing a lot of those barriers that lead to that shyness.... (read in full...)

We keep running out of things to talk about...

Q.   Lately my boyfriend and I seem to have run out of things to talk about. He calls me in the morning asks me how my sleep was and what I'm doing today. Then he says he'll call me later. After work he calls me asks me how my days was. I ask him about ...

A.   26 February 2010: This is so funny.....it reminds me of the odd couple that you see on a sunny beach enjoying the usual hardback as if they have run out of things to say to one another. Best piece of advise would be trying to do things that you normally would ne... (read in full...)

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