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writes:dear cupid do you think i've any chance of finding a girlfriend in my life? i'm 51 year old, i'm 5ft 6inh tall and weight 11st 9lbs i'm going bald in your opinion do i have any chance of ever finding one. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2010): Thanks for answering to my questions. You write really well about yourself. So ,maybe you should try a dating site ,where you can write.
Why did your mother,or father didn't support you? What kind of job are you doing? Do you find it fulfilling,and able to talk about it?
Do you have any mental health issues,like depression?
For now, I would say, you should try to write to someone on some internet site, so they would be prepared about your emotional state..
I, sure ,you are just keep missing the right opportunity.
Do you think you could write better,than start a conversation?
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (6 August 2010):
 Join a club or group where the members have similar interests. There's fodder for conversations. Get yourself out there. You can't find someone if you just mope around the house. Get busy living.
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reader, anderson smith +, writes (6 August 2010):
anderson smith is verified as being by the original poster of the questionmy mother never help me gain confidence in myself nor did my father anyway i've no friends to ask for help. live by myself for the last 30 years and is it lonely nobody to talk to when i come home from work. the weekend and holidays are the worst for . i'm always smartly dressed from top to bottom . but i know i'm not wanted by women even when i was young does not matter what i try i will always get turned down because of my lack of experience with women.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2010): So, there was a time ,when you were better looking,because you were young,and you had your hair,what happened than? Now you blame it on your look, but was it always like that? Did your mother ,or father ever tried to help you to gain confidence when you were a young boy? Please answer to this, because, I can help you more.
Why is it hard for you to have a conversation? Do you have hard time to talk to anybody else, or just to woman? Do you have an job, or an interesting carrier? Please let me know, more information, makes it easier for people to help you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2010): If you get nervous then you're over-thinking it, you start off grand then you realize you're talking to a woman and you put yourself on the spot to perform.
There's no trick to it, you just talk to them like you'd talk to a person you weren't interested in. You know the usual small talk about the price of milk etc.
Just talk and ask them non invasive questions about themselves. Simple as that, get rid of this notion that an attractive woman is a candidate for a relationship and treat them like you would any of your friends. There's no great mystery to women, they like confident, self assured men that know what they want and know how to take it. Looks aren;t important as each woman likes different things.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2010): No offence bu that's not even a question. Of course you can, look around you, look at how many guys with similar physical attributes are walking around with their partner etc.
Confidence, self belief and fulfillment. That's what women want.
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reader, anderson smith +, writes (5 August 2010):
anderson smith is verified as being by the original poster of the questionbut i find it hard making women laugh and talking to them i never know what to say. how do you start a conversions with a woman. all i can think of is hello how are you today hope your keeping well. then i'm lost for words . then i get nervous what say . any suggestions please
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2010): Of course you will,but not if thats the way you look at yourself.If you can smile,make conversation,make us smile and laugh yes. If your going bald,shave it off and get a slight tan. Do not try and hide it.
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