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writes:im a 14 yr old girl my best guy friend is 15 we like each other but we go to different schools and he choose me out of all the girls that like him what should i do should i date him or just remain friends Reply to this Question
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (9 April 2013):
 my first real boyfriend went to a different school but we lived close and he had a car already so we saw each other a lot.
we dated from when I was 15 1/2 till I was nearly 18.
this was before cell phones, email the internet, social media and every other easy way to keep in touch other than snail mail, land lines and face to face.... and yet is worked.
14 is young to date... have you asked your parents about how old you have to be to date? Most folks will say 16 but may be flexible. I think at 14 and 15 you may be a tad young to consider being boyfriend and girlfriend as for me that means being physical together. that's really the only difference between being friends and being boyfriend/girlfriend.
are you asking if you should be physical with this boy.. the answer is NO. you are too young honey.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2013): If you have to say that he "chose" you over all the other girls who like him, then maybe you shouldn't be going out with him. If he really liked you, he wouldn't have "chosen" you, he would have gone out with you anyway, not just looked at all the girls who like him, and singled you out as the most attractive, or the best. Also, if you both like each other, you know that you probably wouldn't be rejected, but if you are really good friends, you probably shouldn't date. I dated a really good friend of mine, and we went out for about 2 months, but we were so close as friends, we didn't really work out as a couple. Luckily, we parted on good terms and luckily, we are still really good friends. You might not be so lucky. If you don't mind potentially ruining any friendship you have if you split up, go for it, but if you expect to remain friends if you do break up, don't make a move.
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