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writes:Im majorly tall, as in over 6ft (6ft 3 to be exact). i cant seem to find any guys taller than me who are at all attractive to me, and i worry that im not attractive to anyone else. I always feel out of place in any public place, and people stare at me, or at least i feel like they do. I really just wondered whether anyone actually finds tall women attractive? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 September 2010): Girlfiend, you need to stand tall, don't slouch, be proud of your 6'3 frame and embrace it. There's lots of guys who adore tall women like you. I'm a 5'4 shorty and I'm positively turned on by taller women with super long legs!
I dated a beautiful 5'10 woman who wore 3 inch heels and she was fantastic! The stress of a long distance relationship broke us up, but we'd still be together. She was a rare bird who prefered dating guys shorter than her. Imagine that! A tall chick with a preference for shorter guys! Rare, but not uncommon! She told me that tall guys turn her off because the ones she dated were complete idiots that had nothing going for them but their height.
Why do you feel the need to find a guy your height who's attracted to you? Do you have a problem dating someone shorter than you are? Women your height often lose out on quality guys because there aren't many men who stand 6'3 or more. Tall women who aren't self-confident have the most issues and difficulties accepting a shorter guy as a potential mate. These women are afraid of the negative attention and what everyone else says about them, especially in public. Height should never be an issue if you really care about a person. What matters more? Your own opinion of your partner or what everyone around you says about your partner? You won't find happiness if you let others decide your happiness for you. If 6'3 is your cut-off and your primary focus in a man is height, expect to be single and lonely.
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reader, Steverino  +, writes (18 April 2010):
Yes. Tall girls are attractive. Very much. Every guy knows this. But most guys are just insecure or afraid.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2009): im 12 and im 5 ft 10 i feel stared at just like u do b ashamed of it your gonna have to get used to it sooner or later. iv tried everi thin coffe pills everithin an it dosent really work jus b comfterble in ur own skin and hope u dont grow lyke mi after a while u wil realize ur shrinking i went from a size 11 in shoes to 9 1?2 an from 6' 0 to 5' 10 so be happy an u might not even notice.
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reader, Who +, writes (21 May 2009):
 I do.
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reader, Harry Castle +, writes (21 May 2009):
 Tall girls are magnificent!
Be proud of it, and whatever you do - don't stoop!
The beauty of a tall girl is totally spoiled when she tried to hide her height by stooping: hold your head up high and be proud of the way you are.
As toxichic so rightly said, confidence atracts.
Be confident.
Harry.
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reader, toxichic +, writes (21 May 2009):
models have to be tall ^_^
i'm sure you are stunning!!
Confidence attracts men too
so just be you and have fun in life :)
What i would give to be tall!!!!!!
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (20 May 2009):
 I do. Everything in them is bigger :-).
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2009): my mum has a friend (female) and she is 6ft 2. shes always attracted the men! she flashes her long legs, they are always on show! and she wears the most gorgeous dresses and shoes when she goes out, shes married with children now! and at 36, she still gets the gorgeous young men after her while shes out in town! not all guys are shallow and want perfect 5ft size 0 blonde hair blue eyed girls :D dont worrryy!!!!! :D :D xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2009): I have a friend who is your height, she embraces it and even wears heels (like 3 or 4 inch heels), guys will like you for who you are, not how tall you are. Its true that there are not a lot of tall guys, but there are quite a number of guys around 6'. You just have to look.
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