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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:do guys like clingy girls... me and my boyfriend have been together for a while now and everything is good except that we dont communicate that much... he says that hes not a phone person.. should i believe that? i am away at school and i havent been home in 2 months so i always want to talk to him like everyday even if its just a text.... he has gotten where he doesnt really text me that much its always me doing it .. i dont really call him cause he works nights and i know that he sleeps during the day ... so its kind of akward to really talk to him on the phone unless he calls me himself... so i guess my question is am i being to clingy or should i just relax a little bit b/c i might be overreacting... i just feel like im being to clingy wanting to talk to him everyday... i love him so much he is such a good guy and i dont want to lose him so what should i do ... please help i am a little confused....
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reader, FluffyPie +, writes (25 February 2011):
 No, NO ONE likes clingy girls. Absolutely every person needs their space. Anyway, stop making your boyfriend the center of your universe, it seems like you only live for him. It's a good thing, but this should have a limit. You know you crossed this limit when you start to wonder if you're clingy. Go out with your friends, have a life outside this relationship, create your individuality. Indeed, some men don't like talking on the phone, or at least they hate talking about personal / intimate stuff over the phone. In that case, try to meet in person on week-ends or on his days off. A relationship is very fragile when the phone (or internet) is the main communication device.
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