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Do guys like being a girl's first?

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Question - (6 March 2009) 11 Answers - (Newest, 8 March 2009)
A female United States age 18-21, anonymous writes:

Do guys like being a girl's first? I'm a virgn. my boyfriend isn't and I'm just wondering what it's like for the guy. In general, however, do guys mind being a girl's first time or is it something they like?

By the way, my age is wrong, I'm 16. I'd appreciate any answers

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2009):

Personally most I know don't like virgins. I've had 5 girls and only one of them was a virgin (my first too). The main reason is that a lot of guys would rather not have to break in a girl and have it potentially go awry. That isn't to say we would turn down a willing virgin, but simply we would avoid actively pursuing them. A good albeit chauvinistic way of considering it is by using two containers of preserved fruit. The first is pressure sealed and has a lid, the other one no longer has a pressure seal and the lid is easier to open also. Both fruit is going to taste as sweet in theory but one is proven and the other could have easily gone botulistic. its the same fruit both ways, so why would you go for the more difficult and dangerous bottle?

Therein because all women are relatively equal, and having a hymen doesnt make you a better person, it is better to go with the tested trail rather than the untraveled route.

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A male reader, hotguy Australia +, writes (7 March 2009):

You don't need to do anything to make it more better physically if you are a virgin then your pussy is naturally so tight that a boy will love to fuck it again and again but after some time just try to get into it enjoy the time of sex and forget about everything whole you are doing it.

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A male reader, hotguy Australia +, writes (7 March 2009):

hey believe me boys like virgins they love em' coz it's getting harder and harder to find virgin girls and that the best time in ur life wen u have sex with a virgin I swear to god

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (7 March 2009):

Some guys don't care or don't want to be the first because of the "baggage." But a lot of guys find it at least a turn-on to be with an inexperienced girl.

And some guys really make it a mission to deflower inexperienced girls just because they're inexperienced. (Watch out for these last ones. They're usually predatory bullshit artists.)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2009):

Just make sure its something that YOU want to do. Follow "Old Guy's" advice.

About the guy I believe that there are some out there that do like it but its not with me or my friends. Hmm kinda weird most of the answers are all males, you'd think some female would give their perspective on this :_: Anyway, most women say it sux the 1st time (pain-wise) but it's better after anyway.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2009):

Kiddo, I just saw your follow-up question. It's wonderful (for him) that you want to make it great. So, all the other questions aside, if you're putting his interests first:

Be into it. I'm really hoping that he's not just some teenaged schmuck who wants to get his rocks off. If he is really into you, and you're really determined to do this, then get into it. Tell him what gets you worked up. Have him caress you, kiss you, lick you, whatever it takes. Have him cuddle you, eat you out, get you as close to your climax as possible. Then lovingly put the condom over his penis, guide him in, and let him know what moves feel good for you.

Good luck.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2009):

The first should be special. It should be a wonderful thing, and he should do everything possible to make it grand for you. He should make you feel loved, comfortable, safe, and most importantly aroused. It should be natural, perfect, and easy. And Right. If it's not right for you, don't do it, regardless of what he says.

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A male reader, anoms United Kingdom +, writes (6 March 2009):

anoms agony auntwell if i found a similar aged virgin then id be delighted to loose mine with that person, but that could be jus me

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2009):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

As a girl, is there anything we can do to make it better physically?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2009):

One one hand, it is very special to be a girls first on an emotional level. On a physical one it could be better. On the other hand, if you are just a notch on his belt, WHY? You should wait to share it with someone who truly values you. If it is the right time and the right guy you will know. If you wonder, oit is just pressure or the desire to please someone else's selfish demands.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2009):

One one hand, it is very special to be a girls first on an emotional level. On a physical one it could be better.

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