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Do girls prefer the confident or shy type?

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Question - (7 October 2006) 9 Answers - (Newest, 4 January 2009)
A male , anonymous writes:

hey girls! do you prefer a confident person or a shy person who tends to think about people's feelings.

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A female reader, aeolovr United States +, writes (4 January 2009):

Sometimes girls like a shy mysterious boy but others like the confident funny type because they just wanna be popular. I suggest you just be yourself instead of being shy then confident with another girl. be who you are and that one girl will like you just that way.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2008):

i like guys who are different. not the popular guy in school. the guy who makes me laugh, and who is cute in his own way. I DO NOT LIKE COCKY guys who think there the top shit. thats so annoying. !

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A female reader, NenaUnique Puerto Rico +, writes (16 January 2007):

NenaUnique agony auntok lets see! well all girls have a different taste for guys..some like the "homies" some like "kinda dorky looking"(they think its cute and i dont kno why) some like "guys who act bad but for real they never did any bad" some like "the goody good" some like "ugly" "cute" "muscley" thats my favorite :) but i guess like i said every girl has her taste but every girl likes for the men to pay ALOT of attention to HER and make her feel like...well dont make her feel show/tell her how you feel about her..ect.

if you need any advice private message me..iight peace

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A female reader, red.roses.88 +, writes (10 October 2006):

Different girls prefer different things so just be yourself. I know thats cheesy but its true if you are yourself then you are bound to find the right girl who likes you for you. Dont change for someone else.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (10 October 2006):

Confident works but sometimes there's a worry of boys being big-headed and cocky. I personally prefer shy boys cuz they're often more caring and understanding (But i don't sterio! i've had a fair few, loving, caring boys who have been confident types! that's just my preference!)But face it, it's gunna vary from girl to girl. You shouldn't put on an act to please girls, just be yourself whether thats confident, shy or in-between. If you fake and lie they'll realise eventually. I hoped this helped hun. -x-

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A male reader, guardian87 United States +, writes (8 October 2006):

guardian87 agony auntokay, im a guy.....but w/e.

all the girlfriends that i have had in the past really love the sweet and sensitive type (YAY ME ^.^), but when it comes down to some things, being confident and taking charge in certain things can really help!

Best of luck!

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A female reader, xAngeliquex United Kingdom +, writes (7 October 2006):

xAngeliquex agony auntYeah I agree with babygirl, being overly confident is a turn off IMO. Guys that are confident in moderation but at times can show their sensitive, sort of shy side to their personality...I love that.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 October 2006):

Id say girls prefare you to be yourself!

they like Fellas who treat them really well but are not too pushy or overbearing I personally love a bit of space when I need it too! I have my time to do my own fun stuff but I also love them txts or compliments out the blue.I think they will go down well with most girls! x

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (7 October 2006):

confident not cocky and considerate.

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