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I am a single girl living in England, who has had her fair share of relationships, both good and bad, family issues, abuse problems, friendship battles... all the problems one could ever imagine.

I am fine despite all of this, as I know how to cope with things like depression, and stress.. Whether it be problems with ex-boyfriends or the need of self-assurance. I am the "agony aunt" within my circle of friends and co-workers and I love helping people with their dilemmas - however long, complicated or upsetting they are, because I love seeing people happy.

Is there any way for this relationship to maybe return from sexual interest to our original real connection?

Q.   I met a guy on the internet a few months ago, and he and I have been talking regularly ever since. Since day one, I really feel like the two of us have had a connection. Everything clicks. But recently things have taken a turn from genuine interest ...

A.   17 July 2011: If you guys have spoke for a number of months I doubt it has just been about sex has it? I'm trying to look at it from both angles. If it has then it's clear as day what his intentions are but what else do you guys talk about, and do you think he ... (read in full...)

Can you fall in love with someone you've never met?

Q.   As the title says, do you think you can fall in love with someone you've never met? Or have you?...

A.   8 July 2011: I am not sure I completely agree. I think people who have never experienced it might believe it's impossible, just as I did before I met someone on there. I definitely think there's a chance you can fall in love with someone you have never met. ... (read in full...)

My sex drive is much higher during that time of the month. Is this normal?

Q.   I am 20 and have noticed that I am so much hornier when I have my period. It's awfffuullll....... Do other women experience this? Men, do you recognize with the women you're with? Thanks for anything. :)...

A.   7 July 2011: Pretty sure this is normal:) I am exactly the same, I guess it affects some women, it takes me by suprise so much! But I've just taken it to mean that it's some sort of hormonal thing going on. Either abstain or just use condoms:)... (read in full...)

What does any of this mean? I can't figure out what this girl wants...

Q.   Any advice on why this girl i was with would say this after only the second date! Is this her way of telling me she isn't interested or what was she trying to tell me? Because only last week she said she liked me!! And now realised this... She ...

A.   7 July 2011: She might have some commitment issues, I say that in the nicest possible way. I'm sort of like that, I come up with all sorts of excuses when all I actually want to say is I like you, but can we not rush into this, I want to take this slow and enjoy ... (read in full...)

Creepy teacher!

Q.   Ok, i'm not gonna sugercoat this. I think my tutor is a pervert and his actions are starting to make me feel uncomfortable. I am by nature a flirty person, but it's not always in a sexual way, just giving people an ego boost if they look like they ...

A.   9 May 2010: Hi, listen it's not your fault. If it was your fault then you wouldn't have written this in the first place, as you would somehow enjoy it, but it doesn't seem like you do, and I don't blame you! Okay, basically, I have had my own teacher ... (read in full...)

He's hot and cold, how do I handle this?

Q.   Hey, I'm upset and confused. I have been with a boy from college for the good part of two months so far, and I care for him so much. We've not known each other long, probably a few months at the most, and we started off friends. He made it so ob...

A.   30 December 2007: Thanks ry :-) Yeah, I'm quite shocked no one else was willing to help me when I'm willing to help them..it is quite unkind. But atleast you're giving enough =]. Anyway, well I haven't spoken to him in person yet because he lives quite far, but I ... (read in full...)

Happy Xmas from DearCupid

Q.   Happy Xmas everyone :-) The aunts who share their wisdom, the people who share their questions and the team of moderators who keep everything flowing onto the site! Plus the 350,000 people who visit each month Have a great Xmas! Feel free t...

A.   25 December 2007: Merry christmas Cupid! And to those who are having problems *including me, sadly =[* There would be no Ups without the Downs,, as they are what make the Ups all the more special. =] And guys, remember - if you love someone, tell them! we arent m... (read in full...)

Am I wrong in thinking there is more to this??

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for five years. We recently moved in together after 2 years in a long distance relationship. I'll get straight to the point. I found some pictures of this girl in his phone and asked him who she was. He told me ...

A.   25 December 2007: I can understand why you'd think this is a bit weird, her reaction to you adding her on myspace was a bit untoward and seems a little TOO defensive for someone who has nothing to hide. Five years sounds pretty solid. I'm not totally sure whether ... (read in full...)

I'm a real life 28 year old virgin... and have hardly lived a life. I need a solution!

Q.   Hi, I am a 28 year old male from the UK. I have a major personal dilemma: I am still a virgin- at my age! This is literally driving me insane. It is affecting me psychologically. I feel that there is a part of my life that is missing. I can not talk...

A.   15 September 2007: Awww hun..I understand why you must feel as if you're kinda missing out on things. Most people do lose their virginity around late teens-early 20's I'm guessing, but just because you haven't, doesn't make you weird or anything, so don't think it ... (read in full...)

Sex was too painful for my virgin girlfriend so we stopped; how can I help her stop feeling like she failed me?

Q.   Me and my gf decided we were gonna have sex last other night but when we started it was hurting her and she said she wanted to stop for now so we did. I told her we could stop at any point and that i wouldn't think any less of her. We have been ...

A.   29 July 2007: Yep, I agree with Uncle Trev.. I lost my virginity when I was ontop; first we were in missionary position but it wasn't happening, so we waited a few minutes and I then went ontop. Felt alot better and I was alot less tense as I was in control ... (read in full...)

We tried to have sex, but it just did not work!

Q.   well i am a bit stuffed atm lol, me and my girlfriend (both near 16) have bin going out 2months now and it just feels so right. we recently tried sex after a couple of drinks but it just did not work. i can easily fit my finger in but only one at a ...

A.   29 July 2007: Well are you sure she's ready? You know vaginal muscles don't relax until like the rest of the body's relaxed -- you cannot have sex comfortably with tensed vaginal muscles. Two fingers should be fine and slip in comfortably, so maybe she says she's ... (read in full...)

There definitely seems to be something between us but nothing's happened so far; I really want it to

Q.   HI me and this girl have been best friends for ages and afew yrs ago i developed feeling for her but i wanted to make sure it wasn't just a crush as i didn't want to hurt her. I've also ben told by afew of out best friends that she loves me but ...

A.   29 July 2007: Well you know nothing is going to happen unless one of you makes it happen; just a case of which one of you out of the two it's going to be. Aww it seems that there is obvious mutual feelings going on =] I would just say just come out with it while ... (read in full...)

Do girls prefer the confident or shy type?

Q.   hey girls! do you prefer a confident person or a shy person who tends to think about people's feelings....

A.   7 October 2006: Yeah I agree with babygirl, being overly confident is a turn off IMO. Guys that are confident in moderation but at times can show their sensitive, sort of shy side to their personality...I love that.... (read in full...)

How do I shave it ?

Q.   I want to shave my vagina but im not sure how to do it or anything...can anyone give me some advice?...

A.   3 October 2006: First of all, I advise you not to shave your vagina with a simple razor or electric shaver, as the hair grows back almost instantly & it is EXTREMELY itchy. (When I say extremely, I mean EXTREMELY). Most women I know get a wax, usually at home...or ... (read in full...)

Why has he started being so controlling ?

Q.   I am 22 yrs old, and my fiance is 39. Im white/indian, and he is black. Lately he has been very controlling, no talking on the phone, or seeing my male friends. What is his problem?...

A.   3 October 2006: How long have you and your fiance been together? His controlling ways sound like he could be quite insecure about your relationship...Maybe because he's afraid of losing you to somebody younger perhaps? Because there is quite a large age-gap. That's ... (read in full...)

He says sex isn't everything in our relationship..so how come I pressure myself to have sex everytime I see him?

Q.   I've been going out with my new boyfriend now for about 3 weeks, but the thing is, we've had sex from day 1 til now,except for twice,which i wouldn't normally do. He said that sex isn't everything and that he cares about me,so how come i feel like ...

A.   1 October 2006: Hey there, I know where you're coming from. If we're on the same page here, I know someone who feels exactly the same way, that even if her boyfriend says that sex isn't everything, she seems to think that by him saying that, he's subtly hinting ... (read in full...)

what do guys like in girls..tall, slim, blonde or short, petite, curvy, brunette??

Q.   hi... im a teenager and wanna know, y would teenage guys want a tall, thin blonde girl to go out with? Wouldnt they prefer someone who is shorter than them? Cos my boy mates all always say "oh theres this really fit girl, she's tall and ...

A.   16 September 2006: I suppose it is just down to the type of girl they are attracted to. It's not like EVERY guy you meet will always opt for the blonde, stick-thin girls. xxxsoulsistaxxx is spot on with what she said, guys have different preferences. It also could be ... (read in full...)

Im tired of always being the one to help out, wish someone would help me, whats the best way out ?

Q.   Hi, I am typically a very positive person but I am tired of helping others:-) Not that I dislike it, but sometimes I also feel that someone should be helping me out. Do I stop helping friends and listening to them. There have been times when I f...

A.   6 September 2006: Well the obvious way would be to, as soon as you feel like you want to share something, you do it as easily as someone would with you. Don't feel afraid or hesitant just because you've developed that role of agony uncle or whatever, in your group of ... (read in full...)

Started dating a LONG term friend and already having doubts...

Q.   Hey! Well, I've got a bit of a problem. See, I have been friends with a guy for a long time, and i mean LONG, almost into a decade. We know each other inside-out. It was only last Tuesday when we decided to start dating but already I am having ...

A.   6 September 2006: Thanks for your advice guys, I think I may have to cut him loose. As you said BabyGirl, it takes courage but I suppose it's for his own sake aswell as mine. Just got off the phone with him I should've told him then! Anyway I'll find time, thanks.xx ... (read in full...)

My best friend slept with my crush!! Should I forgive her?

Q.   My best friend slept with my crush. ive had a crush on a guy named pete for 5 years now and i HAD the bestest friend ever. She helped me get with my crush and she said we were perfect together and i was pleased that she did all of this for me. ...

A.   28 August 2006: Well, make sure you have heard and understood both sides of the story before making any assumptions. Let me get this straight - She confessed? Wow. Well, Pete has said that he has feelings for you but then went off with your best friend, so that ... (read in full...)

He went away and asked me to wait for him...but now there is this other guy! What should I do?

Q.   I found a new guy recently and when we first met, he made me laugh so much that i was straight away attracted to him because of his personality. He didn't ask me out until 2 weeks ago and afterwards we kissed but then i found out he was going to see ...

A.   15 August 2006: Hi x This is never a good situation for girls - having to choose. I think moving away temporarily would be a step in the right direction if you would like to move on from him, as it would be virtually impossible to move on if you see him all the ... (read in full...)

Should I tell my best mate my feelings?

Q.   I'm in love with one of my best friends, but I'm too scared to do something about it, for fear it might ruin our friendship, what do you think I should do?...

A.   15 August 2006: This is exactly the position MY best friend was in with ME. We've been close friends for about 4 years now, and even though he had been hinting that he had stong feelings for me for well over a year, I was clueless - as I thought him inviting me ... (read in full...)

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