Do any guys not fantasize?

A female age 36-40, anonymous writes:

So a guy (not a boyfriend who would have any reason to lie about this to me) told me he honestly doesn't fantasize when he masturbates, that it's like mind-clearing meditation. He doesn't feel like it's sexual at all to masturbate and very rarely uses porn except to get started because it just doesn't add to anything. This came up because he said he didn't understand why masturbation was considered so "bad" and sexual because to him it wasn't. Another friend said they'd heard of friends like this before, but it's totally new to me. Are there many other guys out there like that?

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A male reader, DoubleM  +, writes (10 May 2010):

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