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writes: 'so i finally had a romantic moment with the person i have feelings for ages and everything was good, we laughed, he smiled, we kissed, we were just in that perfect moment when u feel like u want to stay like that forever. His 21, were friends for already three years, we always had feelings for each other but it just never happend, he had his relathionship with a girl and i also had mine and it ended and his also and we continued to speak everyday, some days we meet up and then that happend and now here i am waiting for a text from him. Did things change, does he like me, did i do something wrong?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhe kissed me once on my eye after kissing me on the lips for a while. But i think im just going to let it go, i dont want to get hurt, i just cant stop thinking.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (27 November 2012):
 It sounds more as if it could have been a moment of closeness, a moment of tenderness, than a romantic moment.
I'd say this guy is surely fond of you, but perhaps not romantically.
Then again, .. officially you are friends, friends can talk to each sincerely, no ? Ask him what that moment meant to him, how come it came about, .. and tell him that if it was just one of those spur of the moment things, - that's fine, you value his friendship and want to still talk and be friends... but you both will ONLY behave as platonic friends, wuthin certain physical boundaries, otherwise it may get ambiguous and confusing.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2012): He spent time kissing you on the eye?
Oh dear.
He knows you like him and he cares for you as a friend but isn't into you as a date.
Don't hold out too much hope. In fact, the best thing for you to do is to just live your life and not worry too much about what part he plays in it.
If he wanted more than friendship with you, he wouldn't spend intimate moments kissing you on the eye. It would be on the lips.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionFunny thing about this is that, besides everything we always end up finding each other, we just never had this kind of more intimite moment and i forgot to mention that we have already kissed this summer at a party, day after we kept talking and then this happend, but this is different cause we were alone and i never thought if would happen again (of course i wanted it to as i like him) so we kissed but a long kiss, he hugged me and we just stayed like that, him holding me in his arms all night, he would just cuddle me and kiss me on my eye, u know those special kisses and told me about his father that he didnt have a good relathionship with him and just was so special that i dont want it to slip away!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks a lot for all the help it really means a lot! It happend on friday. I just don't want him to stop speaking to me. When these things happen I just would love to know what is he thinking, I'm sure he isn't so worried like I am, but I don't know, maybe he might be.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2012): He may really like you, but not want a girlfriend. Keep any contact with him light for now.
Text him if you are so bothered. "Hey, I hope that kiss thing didn't freak you out. I miss my friend, where are you?"
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reader, CindyCares +, writes (26 November 2012):
It would help if you tell us since when you have been waiting for his text. I mean, if that " romantic moment " just happened, like yesterday or the day before , no need to freak out ! If , instead , the romantic moment was ,say, 15 days ago and then you've never heard from him anymore, then it means something different.
Anyway... I am sure you haven't done anything wrong. You just have to consider , though, and I am not saying this to jinx you or to make you upset, but.. it's true, that " being in the moment " does not necessarily means there is a follow up to that moment. You get caught in the moment, it feels good, it feels right ... but , a kiss is just a kiss :) some people may also see it as a nice, isolated episode, not like the official start of a relationship.
Don't fret, wait a couple of days, and if he has not texted , well, you can also text him, to sort of see how the land lies, - after all, you are supposed to be also good friends.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2012): How long have you been waiting on him texting you?
Give him until tomorrow afternoon, if he hasn't texted send one over to him, say something light like 'hey you, what you doing ? And add a little about what your up to.. Keep it light, he may just be nervous ..
Take care
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2012): give him time, don't panic! maybe he's thinking, maybe he's busy... or maybe he's trying not to be so clingy because he doesn't want to put you off. If he didn't like you then he wouldn't of had all of those lovely romantic moments with you, would he? you two are ovbiously madly in love and you've been waiting for eachother for ages!!! But sometimes you need to give them space. If he doesn't text you, you text him. If he doesn't reply don't keep on sending him text messages after text messages. Instead of worrying and waiting for a reply, take your mind of it and have a nice night out with the girls, before you know it you'll be having a nice laugh and chat with him again!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI really need an opinion so bad. I just dont know what to think!
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