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writes:my girlfriend went to her ex-boyfriends the other night to get some of her things. she said she would be home later and didn't come back till morning. the next morning her and i were getting intimate and i noticed a golfball size bruise on her inner thigh. when i questioned it she got mad at me and said "its just a bruise i wouldn't question you"
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reader, Yos  +, writes (18 May 2007):
 It does look suspicious, I think you have every right to ask questions. The fact she got angry when you asked also suggests that she has some strong emotions attached to this: which could be because something did happen. Did she tell you why she stayed over? There could be nothing going on, but it certainly doesn't look good.
You could just try asking her directly if anything happened. Look her straight in the eyes when you do and you'll be able to tell if she is lieing or not. You'll be able to feel it, one way or the other. Trust your instincts.
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reader, Frank B Kermit +, writes (18 May 2007):
 Uh, dude..she was gone all night at her ex-boyfriend house when she was SUPPOSE to come back, but didn't...and she didn't even call? Did she even try to explain the bruise?
Yes, I think she did something but Denial is a great thing.
And yes, if the situation were reversed, she WOULD question you...unless she doesn't think you attractive enough to re-bed one of your ex's.
If you are ever in a similar position with a future girl... Go With Her when she heads to the ex's at night.
-FBK
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reader, Yuna~ +, writes (17 May 2007):
 Did you calming ask her or did you accuse her doing something behind your back? This is a very important question to ask yourself.
If you think about it logically, if you accuse her and ask her why there's a bruise on her inner thigh, then of course she will react like this. Any girl will. She will think you don't trust her. However, if you just ask her about it because you're caring about her, then she's up to something. She's paranoid that you are figuring something out.
Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2007): has your girlfriend done anything else rather than the incident of last night to not trust her? do you trust your girlfriend? does she hide things from you or does she tell you things? i get bruised easily. yes, even on my inner thigh. maybe she bumped into something & like me, could have not known how it got there in the first place.
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