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*ts_jus_meTasha
writes:I met the guy I am dating initially last summer through a dating site, but since I had a lot going on at the time, I blew him off for the first few months and we didnt actually go on our first date til Secember, it was a perfect date that I could tell he didnt want to end, but because he took so long to follow up I felt he wasnt interested and we didnt began talking to someone else. He contacted me again just before Valentines Day, I had to work but we made plans for later,,, again another perfect.date ended.with a perfect kiss, the next night we followed up and it wasbetter then the one before. Since rhen we see eachother about 3 times a week. I cook for him onve ot twice a week at my house and weekends we usually do something with our kids. He has an 11 yr old daughter and I have a 2 yr old daughter and apo 19 yr old daughter. Hes.43 and Im 38. He is amazing with my girls, my girls really like him. Hes absolutely perfect and everything i ever wanted. He spent three.nights ober my house last week and when he left I told him through text I was falling for him. He never acknowledged the text and just randomly sent a text hours later about a garbage can he was buying me...i jus moved and didnt have one, so it was a nive gesture, but Im worried that he doesnt feel the same. Ehen were together its amazing. Hes very sffectionate and I have no doubt that hes into me, we are both cautious people. He hasnt been with anyone in 4 years and me for 2, so I know him chosing to be with me and having me around his daugjter was a big step. Just converned I ruined it by expressing myemotions too soon....
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (13 April 2013):
 I don't think so. Maybe buying a garbage can for you is his way of showing he's falling for you too. When you are with a man, actions are more important than words. You shouldn't have to restrict yourself to feel safe in a relationship. You are just expressing yourself and it's his rights to interpret it in anyway he wants. It's not like you are trying to tie him down in a marriage by merely saying you fall for him.
When culture tells you to always let the man chase you, all you get is the absence of rejection and your pride. When you have a keeper why do you have to worry yourself so much that you broke a silly rule?
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