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writes:A guy that I had been close friends with and hoped that one day we'd be an item had to move a couple of months ago for a job. He gave me his old computer before he moved so we could stay in contact. Well that was 4 months ago. Everytime I tried to email him my emails were returned. I phoned him back during xmas on his cell and asked him about this. He sounded very happy to hear from me and said he hadnt hooked his internet up yet. Fair Enough. Well it's two months later and still my emails are being returned. I tried phoning him on his cell recently to find out what was going on and was shocked to find that his phone was out of service. So my question is, why would he act all sweet and nice before he left, and gave me his computer to stay in contact, but then never got his internet hooked up or tell me he was shutting off his phone? It just seems unlike him. Also, do you think it's possible he got a new email address and hasnt told me? Reply to this Question
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reader, juliagulia  +, writes (2 March 2006):
 Well, I doubt he changed his email and his number specifically to ditch you. It sounds like he wanted to stay in touch, but maybe once he got there he got really busy, met a new girl, etc. and just hasn't had the time to get in touch with you. Maybe he hasn't even thought of it much. Not to be brutal, but when you move to a new place a lot of things change and there may be quite a few people he has been struggling to keep up with already. Since you have apparently lost touch with this guy, I think the only thing you can do is enjoy the free computer and wait for him to get in touch with you. Which may or may not happen. But it probably has nothing to do with you at all and is just one of those "life got in the way" things that just happens sometimes. Good luck!
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reader, Inflirtatiousbabes +, writes (2 March 2006):
Well i think if that person was really interested he would have find some ways to contact you,i think that he did really like you but then after he last interest. And yes i think he might have got a new email address and not told you.are he can be going throug some financial difficulties. But still if he is really interested he should find away to contact you.
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reader, smeedle +, writes (2 March 2006):
 Sounds more like he is having either financial difficulties i.e cannot pay his bill or he is having technical difficulties.
He obviously wanted to stay in touch so I think it is more likely that something else has gone wrong, if you know his address drop him a letter and ask if he is ok, mention you tried ringing etc.
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