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age
30-35,
*ockshredder
writes:I m really down. Hi everyone. After being dumped by my gf of 4 years for another guy 5 months ago and after most of the healing process, when I tried to look upon someone whom I thought could be a date, it turned out that she was with someone else. I shook my head and tried to cheer myself up. Some days later, today when I decided to ask another girl out, right now I came to know that she is also with someone else. Haha I had already set images in my mind of her loving me. Why am I so thirsty to be loved again and why everything turns against me telling me that I will never find true love? I am 23 and my life literally sucks. I feel like crying. What my ex did to me left an image of myself as a worthless unattractive clown.Also I am new to America. Just 4 months have passed since I came. English is not a problem. I work at target and communicate with people a lot. I smile and am really courteous. But I dnt know the culture of dating here. Like I don't know how to ask a girl out. Well I haven't got a chance either. It has already turned me down prior to asking out. So please help me out how can I approach a girl and ask her out in a way that the situation does not get awkward? Where to take her? What to talk about? How to make her smile during the date and eventually make her think about me in loneliness? And when to wait for HER to ask me out next? How to find out if she has developed some feelings for me? And eventually the right time to kiss her? Please I know that no one has time to teach these things but sincerely my past and present are together playing a role to bring me down. I want to step up. Everyone is with someone. Teach me some tips and tricks please.Thankyou so much.
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reader, RAINORFIRE +, writes (27 June 2011):
 Dude your trying way to hard... honestly i think you should take a break from the whole dating thing make some friends get a hobby enjoy America bit find God and breathe a little whats the rush...
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