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writes:I know this topic has been discussed before, but I need my own responses. I am 35 and living happily. I started a new job about 3 months ago and have already developed a crush on my new boss. I have an overwhelming urge to tell him, but also feel that this isn't right because of how he uncomfotable hemay feel. I also cannot loose this job. I am sick to my stomach thinking about it and just want to hear either how silly I am being or a way to get past this.
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reader, Tommy7 +, writes (9 October 2007):
It is wrong in the eyes of most companies for an employee to become romantically involved with a supervisor. Both parties jobs will be at risk. Still sometimes people take this risk. If the romance is real someone must move his/her job before the company finds out. Are these risk both of you are willing to take?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 October 2007): There is not a lot of information here. Is you boss married? If so, doubly reason not to go there.
This will not work for you to be flirting and coming on to your new boss, be careful with that one, you will be the one losing your job, not him, he may even fire you just to date you, and wouldn't you resent that, since you need this job?
I would give yourself time to get to know this guy, three months of working with him, you only see his persona at work and you are smitten, but will it last, would it last outside of the workplace? If you give yourself more time and him, let him be the one to make the first gesture the first move....men like to pursue anyway, and this way you will KNOW that he was the one interested in YOU.
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