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Dad has filed a restraining order against him and I miss him so much!

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Question - (19 March 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 19 March 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, *xtearsXxdon'tXxfallXx writes:

okay. well im 17 now and i started sneakin out to see this kid i waz interested in, and we ended up havin sex. no we werent dating. he ended up leavin a hickie on my neck and my dad saw and totally freaked out. so we got in a huge argument and he took my phone away from me and told me that he didnt wanna see me for a while. so that night i ran away and went to the guys house cuz i had alot of feelings for him at that point but he liked me first. so anywayz. i stayed the night there and told them to say i wasnt there if someone was to call or come over and ask. so my dad kept callin there and they just told him that if they found out anything they would let him know. so i waz rly upset for the rest of the day and just wanted to sleep.. so i did. later the guy woke me up and we were talking for a little bit and just laying together. i saw a sign hangin on his sisters wall (im friends with his sister so i waz only there to see her(wink wink)) and it said "when i first saw you i waz afraid to talk to you, when i first talked to you, i waz afraid to like you, when i first liked you, i waz afraid to love you, now that i love you, im afraid to lose you" i told him to look at that sign and he turned to me and said "ur never gonna lose me" and kissed me and I whispered in his ear "i love you" and he told me he loved me too.

we came to the conclusion to walk me somewhere and call my dad and lie and say that they found me and brought me there so we did and i thought everything waz okay, but my dad found out the truth from ppl who i thought were my friends. so he ended up calling this guy and tellin him to stay away from me and he said no that nothin waz gonna stop him from seeing me and walked up my street and my dad ended up goin out there and hitting him. so his family came up to my house and had this big fight in front of my house and i just lost it. since then i've tried to see him as much as i could but my dad filed a restraining order so we can't even write each other and its breakin me and his heart. idk what to do. hopefully he waits. what should i do??? i love him.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2010):

Such a Romeo and Juliet story =D well you'll be legal in 1 year so maybe he can wait?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2010):

It is not the end of the world. You are 17 so less than a year you will be 18 and will be allowed to see him. If the love you two share is true then he will wait for you. Don't worry about it everything happens for a reason. I promise it will be okay don't give up hope ever for anything.

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