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writes: Do women enjoy giving blowjobs less if the man is wearing a condom?Will a woman be insulted if I don't know her very well and want to put one on before she goes down on me?I enjoy receiving oral sex quite a lot. Will I still enjoy it if I'm wearing a condom?What's the best type of condom to wear for this purpose that doesn't numb, doesn't make her mouth feel gross, and will transfer the most heat?Will a woman still enjoy having oral sex performed on her if I use a dental dam? (yes, they enjoy it without one).Will she be insulted if I don't know her very well and want to use one?I usually use some fingers down there. Is it insulting to wear a latex glove or to put my fingers in a condom? I read that fingers are susceptible to herpes. Is it necessary at all for safety?What's the best type of dental dam to use for this purpose (heat transfer, etc)?Thank you for your help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 June 2011): Well er-um if I have to have sex with someone with gloves, dental dams, iron-clad condoms and what all forget it. I am in a monogamous relationship with a man and we've both been tested and so we use nothing save for a diaphragm for me as I am peri-menopausal and an egg could still pop out thru my old ovaries (I am 50) and I still have occasional periods.
Having said that I only use my diaphragm around my cycle midpoint when I may ovulate in tandem with withdrawal method. Neither of these b-control methods are good enough for a women in full fertility mode. Diaphragm cream tastes horrid and we enjoy oral sex better when not using one...
Once you get middle-age IMO the sexual organs require MORE stimulation sometimes and all the rubber doo-dads on the outside just numbs you out. So I don't do risky sex with risky people where I'd have to rubber-up to be intimate. But if you are 'out there' on the high frequency level with people you're trying out for sexual thrills, then you best batten everything down with barriers.....
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (17 January 2010):
 I've been told by a number of very qualified doctors, and it has been reported in the media, that the HIV scare is quite overblown, satindesire, but I admitted that caution is always advisable. I clearly stated, "Be careful of course, and make good judgments."
Well that includes assessing the quality of the person. Are they intravenous drug users, or very sexually active? How about their health? If there is any doubt at all, then by all means demand prior testing, which can be low cost or free under certain circumstances. All I'm saying is that condoms are not always necessary in every situation all the time. I have not contracted an STD in more than 45 years of very active sexuality with women. Healthy partners should be free to dispense with condoms, which few people enjoy anyway. Pills fairly well prevent pregnancy for younger participants, especially a week or more before and after menstruation. Women past menopause have no likelihood of pregnancy anyway.
You have told virgins to always use condoms as well as hormonal birth control pills at all times, and certainly that is the ultimate in precaution. Not bad advice I agree. Virgins may certainly invite pregnancy with unprotected sex without one or the other, but are extremely unlikely to contract STDs.
Anyway, the subject of the poster is oral sex. That eliminates the possibility of pregnancy, and if previously a person is uninfected, then a condom or dental dam is unnecessary. Tests can ensure and eliminate such concern.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (16 January 2010):
Well, as much as usually admire "satindesire" and much of her advice, she is obviously obsessed with STDs. And more rightly so, pregnancy. Condoms for everything! But really folks, most of us are not terminally affected with sexual plagues of some sort, and activities without those balloons are so much more satisfying. Be careful of course, and make good judgments. Test yourself if in any doubt, but otherwise let her suck away. Oh, but take good care of her first: My motto.
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reader, diebler33 +, writes (15 January 2010):
 Well i would never give oral sex to a guy who doesnt trust me,and personally i think its a turnoff to wear a condom 4 oral sex
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