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writes:ok so for the past 3 months my gf has been a total bitch to me every time i go to kiss her or hug her she shouts at me and storms off. when i ask her she just does the same thing.now theres this other girl who aparently is nuts about me ,but i love my girlfriends so much but i feel happy and wanted with this other girl...so confusing please help Reply to this Question
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reader, muffy  +, writes (19 November 2010):
 Hun,if your not happy in the relationship then theres really no point in staying.You can still love her though.If this new girls makes you happy then try getting into a relationship with her.You don't deserve to be treated like that.I hope everything works out for you.If you need anything let me now.
Love and kisses,
Muffy33
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reader, dirtball +, writes (18 November 2010):
 If the communication is gone with your GF then so is the relationship. Sit her down and tell her that she needs to listen to you for a bit because it's important. Then tell her what you're feeling. If you love her, you'll give her a chance.
As for this other girl... It's nice to feel wanted, but do you think you like her for her, or because she likes you. Be cautious about your motivation with her. And if you do like her, then end your current relationship first.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (18 November 2010):
In a relationship, you have to be able to accept the good with the bad. You can't have good all the time. However, there is a point at which you have to stop because it gets that bad.
You're nearly at that point.
I think the first thing you need to do is sit down with your girlfriend and explain that you care for her, love her and want and need to know what is troubling her. There is no use in her acting this way, storming off, bitching unless she is willing to communicate. You need to try one last time and sit down with her and tell her that you need to know what's wrong.
If, after that, there is no change or she doesn't open up, then you'll need to end it and move on.
As for this other girl, do nothing with her and let her go. Your priority is your relationship first.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (18 November 2010):
 You may love your girlfriend but you're not happy with the way she treats you. Either work on your relationship or dump her before you act upon your temptation with this new girl.
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