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36-40,
anonymous
writes:My husband leaves for basic training on Jan. 8th so we should be all over each other, right? Not the case! We haven't had sex in over 3 weeks!!! It's not loss of attraction or sexual desire, but I've been working a lot, he and I just got over a cold, et cetera.. Here is one of my problems, we tried to have sex tonight; but after 10 minutes he lost "it" and couldn't finish. Nor could he get another full erection. Could something be chemically wrong? Could he be losing interest? I don't know where to start in my search for answers. Please help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2008): It is probably stress. Both were sick, and now he is going into basic training and leaving you, it's probably emotional than anything, just cuddle and enjoy your time with him, even if it doesnt involve sex, he is too tense probably for that...he is interested in you or else he would'nt of attempted making love........Just Love Him...with lots of hugs and kisses before he leaves.
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reader, Dr Vendetta  +, writes (2 January 2008):
 between 18-21... and hubby is going off to Basic training...
Lady you either got balls of steel or you clearly don't know any better.
I'm base in the UK around most of the US milltary bases.
and thus know many many people from there.
allow me to be the voice of experience and reason.
the ration kits they're given will screw up their bodies.
plus for what ever other reason ( even whenj not in basic training) many of the wives have said to me the hubbies have no...whats the word i'm looking for.. ok basicly they can't get it up or just simply can't be botherd for sex.
joining the millitary is stressful. theres So much pressure on these people and so much BS they have to go through even once out of basic training.
my advice to you, is don't have any guy friends and buy a few dildos.
or ask you hubby if its cool for you to screw women.
i know soo many men/women who ahve been cheated on in the millitary because of this very reason.
good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2008): Maybe he's nervous. You say he is going into basic training. There is a good chance that the stress of leaving you for the military is affecting him. I think the problem is more emotional than chemical. The fact that he tried to have sex with you is proof to me that he isn't losing interest in you.
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