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writes:A guy I've been casually having sexual relations with for the past 2 weeks brought me over to his place for sex. Before his place, we stopped at the supermarket for dinner. We were chatting in the car as he parked, and I laughed about something silly he mentioned. But as I started saying something else, I was suddenly cut off buy a passionate kiss from him. It felt good. I really liked when he did that. But I'm worried if random kisses during a casual sex encounter could mean anything more? Or was he just missing touching me after a whole week? I'm also worried that he may have just been trying to shut me up (I was sort of rambling on at that point), which I don't get cause he usually says he enjoys when we talk together. So my main question I guess is whether he was kissing me in a rude way, sweet way, or just lustful way?
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reader, Dr. R  +, writes (11 September 2014):
It depends on what you mean by "more". It's very hard for men to have any ongoing causal sexual relationships without starting to get attached. There is a good chance that this kiss was his way of expressing his desire for a more intimate relationship. Have you thoroughly discussed your expectations? Is either one of you interested in turning this into something meaningful, or is it just for mutual sexual gratification, and you both understand that?
He may be trying to parlay your open sexuality into something more permanent, or, he may just want to add a deeper layer of sexual anticipation and excitement to your liaison. Whatever it is, it seems healthy and fun. And don't forget, the best sex happens in the brain. Talk with each other.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (9 September 2014):
 You're having "casual sex" with this guy.... and you're ruminating on "the meaning" of a kiss????
Please try to learn which comes first.....
Good luck....
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 September 2014): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI would have asked him, but I sort of forgot after we'd done other things that evening. We're very honest with each other. I'm not afraid to tell him what I enjoy or don't enjoy and neither is he. But it ended anyway because he had to leave the country. So I was wondering... As an afterthought.
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reader, Behavioural Analysis +, writes (9 September 2014):
 It could be anything. You could ask. As long as you're using condoms and are on birth control properly, I don't see a problem with it. If this kiss confuses you, ask him; you need to feel comfortable asking such questions if you're going to have sex with someone :)
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