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writes: I have a problem in that i have been seeing a guy i met over the internet for nearly two months and he is a proper gentleman, always taking me out and paying for meals and nights out, and for all this kindness i dont think i fancy him. He says he is content with being friends for now, and i would like that.But what about when he would like to become more? Could i grow to love him or should i end it as soon as possible and let him move on?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2006): I am not sure what to say about this, it is interesting that you are writing and asking this question after 2 months, it seems to me that you may actually like this guy...in my opinion the relationships that start out slow with friendship are usually the strongest, how many relationships have you had that did not work out that started out with the hots? Plenty I bet.....passion ususally grows stronger when you think you can't have a person for sure, maybe he is so nice that you just feel over confident that he would want you for a long term relationship....and that is why you are not so sure about your attraction...
However, if you don't find him physically appealing at all, or you just don't connect on any level, you probably are wasting your time and his....is there much there in that regard?
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reader, poppygirl  +, writes (5 November 2006):
i think u should wait a little longer cause i met my ex boyfriend through a friend and i really didnt like him at first and then i started to see him more and then i started to full for him and in the ended i loved him to bits and he was the one wat left me for his ex, i was heart broken. so i suggest u hold on to him a little bit longer, give it some time and then u will definitely know. i ve met blokes b4 and we exchange numbers and i soon no if i dont like him or not straight away, so you must have a little feelings for me otherwise u would not be meeting up with him after 2mths. theres no harm waiting. good luck anyway
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2006): I think if you would like to be friends then do that, but explain to him that your not attracted to him but you really like his company.
its not fair to string a guy along, he might think that he has a chance.
if in time you do become attrated to him then let him know.
Hope I helped
xx
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