New here? Register in under one minute   Already a member? Login244976 questions, 1084347 answers  

  DearCupid.ORG relationship advice
  Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!Search
 New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us .  Articles  . Sitemap

Could I ever become straight if my gay relationship doesn't work?

Tagged as: Gay relationships<< Previous question   Next question >>
Question - (10 February 2006) 3 Answers - (Newest, 17 April 2006)
A male , anonymous writes:

Is there a possibilty that if you at one point in your life thought and were convinced that you were gay, and then you become straight?

My first love was a man, and I'm convinced that I want to marry him, and he's my soulmate.

Is there a chance that I might change and become straight if things dont work out?

View related questions: soulmate

<-- Rate this Question

Reply to this Question


Share

Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question!

A male reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2006):

if you find a way please please tell me.

[email address blocked]

<-- Rate this answer

A female reader, smeedle United Kingdom +, writes (10 February 2006):

smeedle agony auntWell once upon a time a good friend of mine with wife and kids started to have strong feelings about men and he struggled with his sexuality for ages especially as he was married, he did then start to have some on night stands with blokes and somewhere along the line felt that the relationships with men were what he felt right with, so he broke the news to his wife and they seperated, later to divorce.

He then over a period of a few years had relationships with men, some of them longish time and others just for a short time.

Then he met this woman who started working with him and eventually they became close and formed a sexual relationship, they get married in September!

I do not believe that it is easy to determine your sexuality for ever, some people know they are gay from an early age and will always want same sex partners, others are not so sure and need to experiment, my view is that if you are this unsure you may be bisexual, all my friends that are gay have always felt that way.

Do`nt get too hung up on all this, you seem happy and in love so leave it at that, enjoy your partner and worry less about what may and may not be.

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

A female reader, xxhoney69xx +, writes (10 February 2006):

xxhoney69xx agony auntit is hard to tell frm ur email wat age and situation you are in you can be gay straight and bisexual thru the whole of your life it is always possible to have an ever changing sexuality go with whatever feels right at the time and don't worry, you sound like a confused person just go with what feels natural to you babe good luck xxx

<-- Rate this answer

...............................   

Add your answer to the question "Could I ever become straight if my gay relationship doesn't work?"

Already have an account? Login first
Don't have an account? Register in under one minute and get your own agony aunt column - recommended!

All Content Copyright (C) DearCupid.ORG 2004-2008 - we actively monitor for copyright theft

0.0156456000040635!