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I have had probably the worst of everything in my past things too horrible to mention,and have experienced many things,but i know theres only one person who can ever really help me and thats me. Always asses the advice that you would give to others if they were in a situation and take it on board, because ultimately it will be right answer for you,it is not that easy i know...but really give it a go.

I am well educated, but i think your own life experiences are more important and having empathy with others.

Single but through choice, i do not suffer fools gladly, i know what it is i want from a guy and am willing to wait until i find it now. Oh i had fun in the run up believe me, but there was always something missing for me and now i know what it is i wont have to kiss as many frogs..lol

My mums nagging is driving me mad!

Q.   Right...i've reached my limit! My mother is doing my head-in so much, i swear i can't take any more of it or i'll explode!!! She nags at me about everything; getting towels wet, splashing toothpaste around the sink, getting make-up on her b...

A.   5 September 2007: Write down some things she can do for you if you dont do these things that drive her mad, and agree to it. It worked for me and my mum and we devised penaltys between us for not sticking to agreements. You must remember its her home and she spends ... (read in full...)

I really like this guy, he said he likes me but he has a new girlfriend. What should I do?

Q.   Well .. i have been flirting about with this lad for a while now .. i fell for him hardd.. and he said he liked me too .. but recently he got a new girlfriend.. and i really want him back.. there reletionship is not good.. he told me.. but he ...

A.   5 September 2007: Just wait if he really wants you he will leave her. This is an age old story of a lad who wants his cake and eat it unfortunatley. Stick to your principles. You are in an awful situation i know. Just be careful after all you only have his word how ... (read in full...)

I'm not interested in him and he keeps harassing me! What can I do?

Q.   He won't take no for an answer. I met a new man about 3 weeks ago. He seemed quite keen and interested in me so I gave him my number as I thought we could talk and get to know each other better. I told him I wanted to take things slowly and ...

A.   5 September 2007: He wont know otherwise but tell him the police are tracking your phone calls.Perhaps change your number. People like this become obsessive and you have every right to be concerned. Dont try and spare his feelings because this behavior is not normal. ... (read in full...)

I am way too attracted to my wifes sister!

Q.   I have been a happily married man for several years now and I very much love my wife. Her sister has also been living with us for years and I have known her for as long as I've known my wife. The problem is, her sister has gotten hotter and hotter ...

A.   5 September 2007: You are just another guy misreading friendship...it happens often. You should have her move out, because i bet if she knew how you felt she'd leave...and it would cause a strain on her relationship with her sister. Stop fantasizing. You are your own... (read in full...)

I'm 15 and wondering what i'm doing with my life! Any advice please?

Q.   Right..at the minute im at school..i dont really no what to put..i have just started year 11. im 15. my problem is, i dont think i have many good friends..i walk around school at break and dinner on my own, that makes me seem like the loner loserish ...

A.   5 September 2007: Everyone should have a dream and strive to achieve it. Just dont let it control your life.(Is your epilepsy controlled? Do you have someone to talk to about seizures? You should. You will be suprised how much they can help). Be a singer and give ... (read in full...)

Is is too late to ask for a change?

Q.   Ok I've been seeing this guy for about 7 weeks. It started off being some casual fun, but has since developed into something more serious, calling and txting several times a day. We agreed to keep things 'open' when we started. We both enjoy snogg...

A.   5 September 2007: This is probably the best thing... and thats to move on. I wouldnt want to be with anyone who had any intentions on sharing me in the first place, because he would obviously not hold me with high regard. I can only see trouble futherdown the line in ... (read in full...)

I am always there for my friends, but when I need them, I have no one to help me!

Q.   I feel all alone. I feel like I have NO ONE to talk to or to depend on, hence me on this web site, seeking for help. If I felt I had people in my life who cared enough to listen I would be going to them. But I dont have that. Ever since I b...

A.   5 September 2007: Yes the other answer about trying to be more assertive is correct, so i wil not go on about that. You and i are the same,i have issues coming out of my ears and when i try and talk i either am given advice which i never asked for, or they start to ... (read in full...)

Could I be a lesbian?

Q.   Hi, I am a 35 year old woman, in a long term relationship which has just become SO boring! I love my partner, but find my mind drifting away thinking of having sexual fun on the quiet with FEMALES! I am concerned that I may be a secret lesbian,...

A.   5 September 2007: You know there are so many women that fantasize about other women so there is no need to worry its perfectly fine. Women are more sensual soft loving and affectionate, and perhaps its that side you crave. Plus being a woman yourself you know what it ... (read in full...)

Why?

Q.   I think the title of the article leaves alot to think about. As a women in this so called 21st century, i feel that when it comes down to men, there are alot of questions asked , most of them starting with why? It happens all the time, on a lunch ...

A.   5 September 2007: Because as the book says 'WOMEN ARE FROM VENUS AND MEN ARE FROM MARS', We speak Venusian...thats all. We have a greater desire to know everything...And everything has levels of reason. Its just the way we are. Say there is a bunch of flowers plac... (read in full...)

After asking me out he told others he didn't have a girlfriend!

Q.   I wanted to go out with this guy for a long time and I thought he was so perfect for me. He finally asked me out and I was so excited, but a couple days after I agreed to say "yes", he told all of his friends he didn't have a girlfriend. How can I ...

A.   5 September 2007: Perhaps suggest to him that it made you feel rejected as you wont get far either of you without a little honesty. He may not see you as a girlfriend yet and perhaps this is why,as its early days, but also it really isnt anyone elses business. Y... (read in full...)

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