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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:So I've known this guy for about six months through work. We don't work for the same company, but see each other in a group setting a couple times a week because of our duties/schedules. Our interactions are usually in front of others, so if he was interested in me I know he wouldn't be too obvious about it. On the down side, I have to wonder if I'm reading into the little indicators I do notice!He's always very polite to me, seems interested in what I have to say. We share many interests/views. If I tell a joke, he is always one of the first (and loudest) to laugh or otherwise acknowledge it.It seems like he is constantly finding random reasons to high-five me, which is realistically all the physical contact I could expect from him in the workplace. I catch him looking at me fairly often, but then again I'm looking at him fairly often too. Recently he asked for a hug after a group of us from work all went out for coffee one evening. And finally, the other day I asked who was working at his place of employment over the next week or so, because I had to drop something off there. He went out of his way to tell me he was working a certain day, like he hoped I would show up that day.He's a few years older than I am, and definitely single, if that helps. Could he be interested in me as more than a friend, or am I making a big deal out of nothing?
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reader, eddie1000 +, writes (7 November 2009):
yes he's definitely interested he is showing you all the signs and he is probably noticing yours so now just enjoy the flirting and he will probably make his move soon keep giving him the signs he will make his move let him chase you he's coming.
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