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writes:I meet my online bf in august 1st we've emailed, called, you now the thing is that right now i'm in mexico finishing college (senior yr) and he lives in cali. he was in cabo and i wanted to meet him the day he left in mexico city just you know get the chance to see him in person but i never saw him and he never saw me. now i recieved a free stay in cabo for 4 days and 3 nights and i invited him to go with me by december. he thinks im not a virgin but i am and i'm scared to be alone with him for 4 days in cabo, ive been there before but not alone. should i cancel my trip? should i meet him in cabo? should i you know ...? and there's even more to come!!!! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2010): umm no! you shouldn't meet this guy in Cabo. he could be a murderer. you don't really know this guy. he could rape you, he could kill you. don't you understand how dangerous this situation is? And if your alone with him, mostlikly hes going to want to have sex. and don't want loose your verginity to someone you hardly know. once you loose it you will never get it back. If you want to meet him go on a date with him in public and bring along a friend. but i still wouldn't recommend that. and i hope i don't turn on the news one morning and here a report of a young girl getting rapped and murder. sorry for being so harsh. just want you to be careful.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2010): Tennisstar is dead on balls accurate here. I will mirror what she just stated. Good luck.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (24 October 2010):
 Here's the biggest red flag of your post..he never saw you and you never saw him. Do you even know what this guy looks like? Webcamed before, or are you just going off pictures? If you are just going off pictures, then he is not who he says he is, otherwise you would have seen him and met him in person. Why didn't you plan to meet at the hotel bar? Rather fishy. Since you have never met him in person, and already lied about being a virgin..I would NOT invite him to be alone with you for 4 days. That is very dangerous. It's not necessary to cancel a free trip, instead take a friend with you. And if you want to meet this boyfriend of yours doing it in a public area, like the hotel restaurant or bar and have your friend with you. Please be safe, or you will be sorry.
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