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41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hi! I met a guy about 2 months ago. The very first week, we got really close. We talked about being together long term, we said I love you, (he was the one who said it first) and he was very sweet and always saying how much he liked me. I will admit that it all happened very fast! But, then all of the sudden, he stopped talking to me. I didn't hear from him for a week. He contacted me again and when I asked him about it, he said that he got freaked out about how close we got, but that he still wanted to be with me. We didn't say all those things to each other again, but we talked all the time and our connection was still there. My question is: Why is he acting this way? He calls me, not everyday, but often. He is the one who initiates contact, but when I expressed that I was ready to take the relationship to the next level, he said he wanted to but, it hasn't happened yet. I'm thinking, does he really not want to be with me? I'm so confused and I need help with figuring out his odd behavior!!!
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reader, theaboo +, writes (10 August 2010):
 Practice some patience! He told you he was freaked out by the quickness.. so let him come back to that on his own. 2 months is still fast to be saying I love you. So if you really feel he is worth it long term.. then you have to let him be the man. Stop bringing up your relationship or where it's headed and let him pursue you a little bit. He just wantes the chase back!
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