A
female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:i have been with my boyfriend for 2yrs plus, and he is my 1st. before we went into a relationship, i have interest in both he and one of his friend. every week end, i will be meeting my boyfriend and his friends. gradually, the feelings towards his friend is back. i don't know if he feels the same way. because at times his friend would do something that make me feels that he likes me too.i'm in a dilemma now cause i still love my boyfriend. and can anyone tell me if this is normal? i can't believe that i'm facing this kind of situation. Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, .x..P.J..x.  +, writes (13 March 2008):
 This is perfectly normal for a relationship. The first thing that you MUST do is find out if this 'friend' likes you more than a friend... once you've found that out..
If he likes you more than a friend,
You should see which one you like best, which one would treat you best, which one you find is funny or whatever you like in a guy, see what best suits your specifications ;)
If he doesn't like you more than a friend,
You should stick with your boyfriend and try not to think about his friend and try and get over him [the friend]. Getting over people is probably really hard.. i still can't get over my ex and i don't know how to apart from letting them go and forget about them.
I hope i helped you out a little bit and if you need more advice just send me a private message. Good Luck xxx
|
