A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:hi aunts, im in a long distance relationship now were 1 year as couple and we been friends for 3 years now! hes in australia and im in philippines, I met him through my friend when he visited here in the phil! so since then we talk every day, skype calls, phone calls! so we fell in love with each other! hes 36 years old and im 23 hes working in autralia and im just gonna graduate soon and he always said he so bored and depressed there living with his mom and dad! I always tell him soon that one day im gonna be there and you have some company to talk too every day! like we always do! but theres one time like i wanna hear from him! im looking for different side of him, he always ask me about what i like in the future! but when its hes turn asking him back he always said! i dont know! he said he too slow to come to think of it! I told him that this ldr is hard sometimes and i wanna hear something from him! that i cant still continue this relationship, like our plans for the furure! and i ask him about it! he just dont know what to say! im so dissapointed about what he said! i dont know if im still gonna continue this relationship knowing that he dont have plans for us! can you please give me some advice what to do? or to tell him! sometimes i need peace of mind to be alone! to think if hes really into me!
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (21 October 2012):
 LDR are very hard, especially when he is not showing you any signs off commitment. Personally I think if it was me I would end it as it is obvious you are not getting anything out of this relationship. The only thing you want from him is assurance about the future and it is clear he cannot give it to you, my suggestion would be to find someone who can actually spend some quality time with you. Good luck.
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