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writes: Ok, there is this guy i have been friends with for 2 years on my college course. there had always been a spark there between us that was more than friends, but we had resisted. anyway last weekend we went out on a date and we ended up kissing and got close.when i got into college the next week he was there and we went out for another drink together after for our second date. we kissed again. but then the next day he was saying how we were 'GOING OUT' and this freaked me out and now i have been pretty offish with him even though i realy like him and i know he defo likes me!a few days after this i told him i felt a bit weird about things and needed space. but when i saw him out in a club we got together again and things got a bit steamy when i was drunk on the dancefloor.the next day he asked if i wanted to go out again. but i am not sure what i want as if it goes wrong and i loose him as a friend and as a partner then i don't know how i would feel. I said we could go see a film if he realy wanted to. but then i had a reply saying there was no point if i didnt realy want to..and also this is my first real relationship as i haven't realy had a boyfriend before and don't know how to act! I am 20 by the way and rather confused.feel quite awkward in college with everyone around us.Should i talk to him about it or what should i do?
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reader, chunky_monkey +, writes (2 April 2006):
You will never know if or if not you will lose both his friendship and relationship. You have to take a risk if you really like him. My boyfriend is my sister's boyfriend's best friend. I knew from the beginning if anything happened between us I will still have to deal with seeing him in awkward times. But i decided to take the chance. Now almost 2 years later we are together and talking about marriage. Sure we have had quite a few rough patches like any normal couple. But we decided we were right for each other and that we would work it out. Good Luck
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reader, XalieX +, writes (2 April 2006):
It's obvious that he likes you, as more than a friend and you like him too. I think that the only reason you'r scared of the idea of you two 'GOING OUT' because you hav'nt had a real relationship before. You should just go for it, because other wise you'r always going to be thinking...' what if we had got together?' It will be a bit awkward at first because of what good mates you are but after a while it will be fine! Next time you see him, just talk to him explaining that he will be you'r first real boyfriend,and that you want to take things slowly. Im sure he will understand. And don't worry about not knowing how to act, it will all come naturally to you! GOOD LUCK
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