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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I posted a message not so long ago. I found out that my husband had cheated on me it has been a year 1/2 ago. He has a son with this other lady. We have been married for 7 years now and are not willing to separate. We do love each other and want to work things out. We haven't told his and my family anything. My father is not in good condition to be hearing anything like this and nether is my mom. Not only our my parents sick but my husband mother was recently in the hospital and is in to condition to be finding out any bad news. Her ex-husband cheated on her and she had to raise her 3 kids on her own. My mother-in-law does love and care for me deeply as I do her. My husbands son is now a year old and us as a family my husband and our kids have been seeing him every weekend. I want to know how and when should we let our family know. I would tell my sister or brother but am afraid they wont be able to contain themselves and I don't want them treating my husband differently and wouldn't want my brother doing anything to him. Them know I'm scared that my parents might find out and I don't want to lose my father. Not only that I don't want my mother-in-law to think less of her son and I'm not sure what will happen to her. What should I do???
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