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writes:alright so this is about two of my exes. i feel like i'm in love with both of them. alright so yesterday i broke up with my boyfriend and i've been talking to one of my exes -we'll call him mike- and i've felt so much feelings for him, i mean we were on and off for a while and i felt like i wanted him so bad. unfortunately, i always end up hurting him. and i don't want to. so my other ex -we'll call him tom- and i have been fighting but we made up yesterday and for some reason i just felt like i was immediately in love with him. and we hung out that night and kissed and cuddled.. it just felt so right.. and he likes me too. but now tht we're talking again i don't know what to do about mike.. its like i always do this to him and i feel bad. i hate hurting people so what should i do?
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reader, xxzoehunnixx  +, writes (10 November 2008):
 If you ask me you should seriously just follow your heart ....... if you really still love this 'tom' guy then you will go with him..... but makesure that uno that he loves you just as much or even more..... take care x
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reader, ez4u2say +, writes (10 November 2008):
Im sure your not going to like what I have to say and probably heard it b4 but your too young. Been there done that and seen happen time and time again. Leave poor Mike alone.He needs to move on! So do you. You can't hurt people you care about over and over. You don't care enough or this behavior would never have continued. With you being young your attention is short, you get bored with things easily, and you have a lot more to learn.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2008): You don't know what you want, and you're not being fair to either of them right now. My advice would be to choose neither, and wait till you are ready to commit yourself to one person before you jump in with both feet.
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