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writes: My aunt on my mothers side died last year from cancer in her late fifties, My uncle has now told me he is, and has been, having an affair with my separated sister since 7 days after my aunts funeral. I can't deal with it and find it repulsive. What should I do, I love my sister dearly and always will but as for Uncle rockspider ...well
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 August 2006): I agree with female reader in that it is surprising to find out how many people have sex at a funeral or shortly there after so this may be in part to it.
I think you should talk to you sister. Ask her why and then tell her how you feel then leave it alone.
Take it easy.
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reader, pica +, writes (21 August 2006):
I think helpful girl is too harsh .. bereavement does strange things to people. If it started very shortly after his wife's death then it could well be a reaction to that event. I don't mean to be unkind by saying you should keep out of it but as you are not comfortable with it you might be best to limit your contact with them.
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reader, helpful girl  +, writes (20 August 2006):
 all i can say is obvously he didnt love her enough if he went off with somebody else 7 days after her funeral. all you should think of is at least your aunt was happy with this suppose to be man and at least she isnt alive to find out who hes gone off with. but alsowhen some body loses their deepest love they do go on the rebound to try and make them selves feel better and 9 times out of 10 it never does make them feel better may be thats what hes trying to do.
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