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writes:I have lived with a bad alcoholic for over 5 years I completely remodeled our home while he worked out of town I caught him cheating for the second time now he says he wants a change because he will not quit drinking and says we are not compatable I do not want to move and I have kids and all the animals and a home business His parents own the property and said I do not have to go anywhere A friend owns the title to our home and says we need to stay and he needs to go. will he be able to throw us out? He is so abusive the last time he was home for 4 months he was sober 1 day and we lived in Hell The great job he has he got because of me. I know some secrets he has that would level him. Should I threaten him if he tries to make me move? the booze has pickled his mind and I know he will go back to jail at the rate he is going. What do I do? He doesn't care about this place but he doesn't want me to have it
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (12 September 2010):
 You don't want to move on, but what kind of example are you setting for you children with this toxic relationship. Daddy drinks, is mean, cheats, and you keep on kicking him out, your children see this. You need to protect you and your children. I would look into whether his parents can force you off their property or not, but the title of the house is owned by a friend. I doubt his parents would force you and their grandchildren into the streets. Instead, they need to put their son in rehab or AA. Worse came to worse you could move in with the friend who owns the title to the house or back with your parents, or a relative. Listen to your friend, protect yourself and your children they don't need to see that.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 September 2010): Legally, he cannot kick you out of a house he doesn't personally own.
I'm glad you are able to see the light and are planning how to get on with your life without that horrible man.
Good luck to you, the kids and the animals :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 September 2010): never threaten a cold heart it won't have any effect other than anger. Go through the correct channels and keep safe.
You deserve a good life you'll never have it with him.
Spunky monkey
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