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writes: I have been with my bf for almost 10 years now. Things were getting a bit stale between us so I decided to meet up with a bloke that i had been chatting to online. Things went well and we started to see each other regularly. We had amazing sex. We had a major argument before xmas and he did not get in touch for over a month. During this time I realised i love my bf and that it was him i wanted to be with. We got engaged and i was truly happy for the first time ever. My internet lover then decided to get back in contact. I explained i could not see him any more but that i wanted us to stay friends. He agreed but then decided he still wanted to have sex with me. He is bribing me with some incriminating photos and a video that he took of me. He says he will send them to my fiance if i do not sleep with him whenever he wants me to. What do I do? I dont want to lose my fiance and i will if he finds out but i dont want to have sex with this bloke again. Please help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2007): Well, I think that you have to do whatever he tells you to do. I think that it is important that you protect the relationship with your fiance. You have already had sex with the other guy, so it is nothing new.The bottom line is protecting the one that means the most to you.
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reader, Devil's Advocate +, writes (24 February 2005):
 Oh what a tangled web we weave!You could call his bluff and hope that the bit-on-the-side doesn't contact your fiance or you could tell your fiance what happened and hope that he will be understanding.Further problems may arise like have you and your fiance made any "movies" together? If not, he may be jealous that you did with another.The big lesson here is don't be chatting to others when you are in a relationship, it will only lead to heartache.
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