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Can't orgasm with boyfriend, through sex

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Question - (24 November 2004) 2 Answers - (Newest, 20 April 2007)
A , anonymous writes:

Ive been going out with my boyfriend for nearly 4 months now. Within the beginning of the 3rd month, we began having sex. We both felt ready and it was both our first time.

The sex is very enjoyable, pleasurable, but the only thing is, i can never seem to orgasm. I havent told him this yet as i dont want him to feel bad. He can make me orgasm in other ways, but sex just doesnt seem to do it.

How can i sort this problem out so we both get the best out of it?

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A female reader, Keria United Kingdom +, writes (20 April 2007):

I would like to suggest that you use a vibrator as part of sex.

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A reader, Angel, writes (21 March 2005):

A lot of women can't orgasm through sex. It's not unusual. I am one of them, as it happens. The only thing that does it for me is oral sex. Just accept that you can't orgasm through intercourse and that it takes soemhtign else to get you there. Doesnt matter how you get there, as long as you get to climax, who cares?

So many women struggle to orgasm whatever they do, that you should be happy that you can. if he really loves you he will want to please you and I am sure that if you tell him what you want him to do to make you climax, he will be willing. Just enjoy what you have got. Be glad that you can climax instead of focusing on the fact that you can't when having intercourse.

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