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writes:Can u be really good friends with your ex bf we agreed to stay mates but whenever i see him theres always a connection, he flirts and playfights with me it seems like where in a relationship sometimes, sometimes my mates think we are bk out, or that we hadnt split He dumped me for someone else, but that didnt work out and now he has this other gf, but it just seems he flirts with me and enjoys my company when im there, i was with him for 8 months and sometimes think there is still something there between us
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reader, knight08 +, writes (20 December 2008):
 Well it depends, my ex-girl friend broke with me about 4 months ago (cuz she chose her friends and parties over me) and we go to the same college so we see each other very often. She told me we would still be friends in fact we still talk at school and chat daily on msn. But this had cost me such great pain as I am still into her and she’s not that much; even though she admits that she still likes me, but I still have feelings for her, I still dream about her and it kills me when she’s dating some other guys.
It’s up to you, if you think you can take all the pain that brings with it and stay friends with him go for it, but my opinion its best not to stay friends as if you’re still into him you will suffer. I find it very hard to stay friends with my ex as I don’t really need her as a friend I already have friends; I want her as my girl-friend, and it might come a day when I would stop talking to her.
Good luck girl!
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reader, marijo  +, writes (20 December 2008):
 Its fine to be friends with your ex since both of are not married yet..But before you feel something really really special for him makes sure he feels the same way...Otherwise you have to distance yourself from him...If you start falling for him again without making sure that he cares for you in a special way, then chances are, youre going to be broken hearted...you may want to talk to him or confront him about it..Tell him that you truly feel about him...
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