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writes:can you be celibate when you have already lost your virginity?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2010): Being celibate? Yes you can do that.
Becoming a virgin again? Sorry, no.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2010): You can be celibate even after you lose your virginity. It's a choice some one makes, just means you made the choice that you wont or dont have sex for a long period of time, but you cant un-lose your virginity.
If you decide to be celibate, it probably would be good to know the feeling first. Considering your age range, wait anyway ok.
Xoxo Hope it helps.
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reader, Sadaqah +, writes (4 November 2010):
Dear tERi0N,
It is possible to be celibate because that simply means not having sex for an extended period of time, it's not exclusive to virgins.
Sincerely,
Sadaqah
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 November 2010): Of course you can. Celibacy is just abstaining from sexual relations. You can lose your virginity and then decide to be celibate later. But you can never un-lose your virginity.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (4 November 2010):
 I think you definitely can. Staying celibate is about abstaining from sex, something I think is more difficult to do if you have once experienced it, than it is for someone who has never done it.
A typical idea is for nuns to live in celibacy, but they do take in nuns who are not virgins, as I am aware of.
I think celibacy is more about choice than about whether you are a virgin or not. It's not about virginity. It's about the choice you take to abstain.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (4 November 2010):
 Celibacy means to abstain from sex..you can lose your virginity, then decide you don't want sex again until marriage. Thus practicing abstinence or remaining celibate.
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