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writes:I have a very close net friend, who I have been chatting to for quite a while. We are very very close. I really like him more then a friend and I know he likes me more too, hes made those feelings very clear to me. The thing is he lives in a different state to me, yet he might be moving to my town in Jan *crosses fingers* if he gets the job here he wants. Yet there is the chance he might not get it. If he does we have planed to meet up and if things work out then obviously develop a relationship. Yet I'm fearing that he wont be able to end up moving here and wont get the job. Help! I really like him, I feel like I am in love (and please stop before you even go on about how 'you cant love someone on the net who you have never met, just because you may not of, doesnt mean i cant, heaps of people have before!)and I am going ot be really upset if he can't move here.I guess my question is, if he doesn't end up moving here then should I think about having a long distance relationship until we can be together? He once suggested it, but I don't knwo if he was joking or serious. Please help, I don't know what to do.He is unlike any other person I have known. My friends treat me pretty badly and aren't people I get along with and they use me, but he doesn't hes so kiind and understanding and just has a different mind set to everyone else I know. Thats why this is so importnat to me.Please help, thanks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2005): IzzyStradlin- because i have university here, i just can't move. and plus i don't have the money to afford to live out of home as im only young.
mommyofthree- well i already know the risks, so thats why i didnt want people to tell me, i wanted an answer to my question.
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reader, mommyofthree +, writes (13 December 2005):
 It sounds like you pretty much have your mind made up already. I will spare you my feelings on internet relationships because you obviously don't want to hear anything that isn't a positive comment on the whole thing. I will advise you to be careful because you never know if people are who they say they are.
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reader, IzzyStradlin +, writes (13 December 2005):
Well if he cant move to you, whats stopping you moving to him? .. to me the answer is simple, do whatever it takes to be with him!
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