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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:we have been together for 3 years now. since 4 months ago he starting texting this girl from work and they got close. i dont think he has cheated on me physically, but surely emotonally. after i found there texts (which were sometimes sexual/affectionate...and exremely regular). i confronted him at the beginning - 4 months ago, and he regretted it and told me it was nothing. but 2 weeks back i found out that they continiued this...i wanted to leave our house, but he wouldnt let me. i stayed but now more and more we have tried to dscuss why he did what he did, he feels he have emotional issues, and i have a feeling he doubts that he loves me like he used to. he has given so much attention to someone else, and these past few months were very bad as i was paranoid and we started having fights which would not have been there in the first place.i know i should leave coz he showed complete disrespect and is a liar. but what we have together i dont want to give up. he neither as what he told me in our talks.but i dont see any effort from his side to rebuild our relationship.Can one just fall out of love like this? can he just stop loving me coz another girl took his attention? he now keeps to himself, he is not the loving, caring, attentive boyfriend he was...i feel angry at this situation, but i cant believe someone who u lived with so long and loved so deeply can just not be sure of his feelings anymore.should i be patient?
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