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30-35,
*ecilia003
writes:i'm mad at my ex 3 weeks ago and when he said hey to me, i ignored him. then no contact. even if we met, he avoided me. about 2 weeks ago,i called and told him we could still be friends, we don't have to avoid each other. but like 5 days later, i regret, i txt him,said i missed him.then i called him, but he said he did't want get back,but we could still be friends. he didn't avoid my phone calls,unlike what he used to do when we fight. but he refused to meet and talk in person, and he still avoids me when me meet(hiding, leaving early).i've already told him don't be scared of me, i won't beg him to get back.(but actually i want to). and i know he's already try to see someone. is there still any chance i can get him back? if so, how?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (26 September 2011):
 No let him come to you. If you keep trying you are going to come across as desperate and needy and you will only keep hurting yourself. If he is interested he will come to you. If he doesn't you need to accept that it is over and move on.
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reader, cecilia003 +, writes (26 September 2011):
cecilia003 is verified as being by the original poster of the questiontoday i just got the news that he and the girl he went on a date with last week was over, shall i try to get him back?
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (25 September 2011):
It sounds to me like he has made up his mind and that the relationship is over. For your sake I think you need to accept this and concentrate on moving forward with your life. I know that it is hard especially when you want him back but you need to accept that he is moving on and doesn't want to be with you know matter how hard it is. I think the best thing for you to get over him is to try and avoid him for a while until you are ready to be friends. Being friends with him will never work at the moment when you still want to be with him. Go out with friends and enjoy single life. It will get better.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2011): it sounds like he's not ready to see you in person yet, so maybe he's trying to move on? if you've already told him that you want him back and he's made no attempt to get back together,maybe its best to try and move on, good luck!
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